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I wish I could take that and use it as a siggy to demonstrate what misguided optimism does to a person, LOL.
Well, darling, some of us make mistakes when we're young but if we don't wallow in them, we CAN learn and grow. And I fail to see where there's any misguided optimism. He grew up, learned from his past and moved on and I have the most wonderful partner in every sense - he is my partner in all things. There's no "I" in partner.
I'm just amazed that so many don't care about a potential partners past behavior. As one poster mentioned, previous history is the best indicator of future behavior. I would certainly want to know if a potential partner had been a prostitute, drug dealer, thief, murderer, been involved in sexual abuse, swinging, group sex, homosexuality or a bunch of other things. EG. I would have no interest in any woman who had killed her 2 previous husbands or cut off some man's manhood in the middle of the night.
I'm just amazed that so many don't care about a potential partners past behavior. As one poster mentioned, previous history is the best indicator of future behavior. I would certainly want to know if a potential partner had been a prostitute, drug dealer, thief, murderer, been involved in sexual abuse, swinging, group sex, homosexuality or a bunch of other things. EG. I would have no interest in any woman who had killed her 2 previous husbands or cut off some man's manhood in the middle of the night.
First of all, that's a bit extreme
But secondly, that is NOT what this thread is about - perhaps you misunderstood.
This thread is about ruminating over your partners past sexual experiences with others once you ALREADY know about them - not about not even finding out about them in the first place
it does not bother me, as i i was there for the vast majority of her past sexual encounters with others.
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