women's body type and libido - is there a connection? (dating, Asian)
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Anyone remember middle school and junior high, when the boys all assumed that the girls who developed early were, or wanted to be, sexually active?
Those poor girls! In my limited observation, they tended to get married young, and divorced young. I don't know to what extent this can be generalized.
OK, now you're going to be inundated with DM's from the guys! lol !
Nah - I think most of them know I'm married!
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Originally Posted by Yzette
Anyone remember middle school and junior high, when the boys all assumed that the girls who developed early were, or wanted to be, sexually active?
It was awful! I was so embarrassed that I used to hunch over and wear baggy shirts! I didn't understand the attention that I was getting from boys that I wasn't friends with. It's not like they were straight forward in their actions! And some of the girls were really mean! I've since learned to use the "girls" to my advantage - but it took me years to feel comfortable in my own body!
Those poor girls! In my limited observation, they tended to get married young, and divorced young. I don't know to what extent this can be generalized.
Not me. I got married at 28 and have been with my husband for 10 years. I also didn't do the deed until my senior year with my boyfriend of 9 months that I'm still really close with.
It was awful! I was so embarrassed that I used to hunch over and wear baggy shirts! I didn't understand the attention that I was getting from boys that I wasn't friends with. It's not like they were straight forward in their actions! And some of the girls were really mean! I've since learned to use the "girls" to my advantage - but it took me years to feel comfortable in my own body!
I've noticed this is fairly common for that type. Some girls go through a baggy shirt stage.
Not me. I got married at 28 and have been with my husband for 10 years. I also didn't do the deed until my senior year with my boyfriend of 9 months that I'm still really close with.
Well, I was more of a late bloomer, I didn't wear a bra until 13 and got my period at 14 and a half.
I lost my "V" at age 17, at the end of my junior year with my boyfriend of nearly a year myself, who much later, after a breakup and college, ended up being my husband!
I think some of you have nailed it with suggesting that this guy and his wife see a therapist. He shouldnt blame her low libido on her body shape/type. There must be other issues here.
OP, look into counseling or, why dont you and your wife both sign up at a gym and start working out. Im almost willing to guarantee that you both will be in each others pants pretty much non-stop when your physical fitness and body consciousness improves. If it doesnt, then well there are deeper issues in your relationship.
I think some of you have nailed it with suggesting that this guy and his wife see a therapist. He shouldnt blame her low libido on her body shape/type. There must be other issues here.
OP, look into counseling or, why dont you and your wife both sign up at a gym and start working out. Im almost willing to guarantee that you both will be in each others pants pretty much non-stop when your physical fitness and body consciousness improves. If it doesnt, then well there are deeper issues in your relationship.
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