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I WANT to be sympathetic but it's eluding me. Any advice?
Go sit and meditate a bit longer. Probably she was just shocked, and she will get over it. Maybe she thought you two would split apart the way they did, and she's now feeling left out. Let her alone, give her time to adjust. She'll come around as long as you give her space and stay open. Don't close your heart.
Probably she was just shocked, and she will get over it. Maybe she thought you two would split apart the way they did, and she's now feeling left out. Let her alone, give her time to adjust. She'll come around as long as you give her space and stay open. Don't close your heart.
Heck, I wouldn't feel very good in Tess's shoes myself. Being good enough to F, but not good enough to marry is certainly a pretty bitter pill to swallow.
I'm struggling with it though. First off, I can't sympathize with any woman who thinks a man is suppose to marry them because they have a kid together, I never knew she felt this way. Secondly, how dare she imply that me not wanting kids is some flaw men should be repulsed by? I feel she got it backwards: men should be repulsed by women trying to trap them by having their child. They've been broken up for 4 years, she doesn't have a right to be upset. I WANT to be sympathetic but it's eluding me.
Any advice?
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I have nothing to say to a woman that uses the term "baby mama"...except to grow the **** up.
I have nothing to say to a woman that uses the term "baby mama"...
That, too... I was gonna say it at the beginning, but managed to refrain. The thing is the way of writing didn't quite match the usage of this term, so it must've propagated in more circles...
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