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Old 04-30-2012, 11:53 AM
 
Location: Washington, DC
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I decided to ask out this women I've chatted with and shared some laughs and dog appreciation at the dog park several times (having her email from a social group).

I ask her to a dog fundraiser event where you bring your dogs and compete in fun competitions like races and dress-ups. I say "thought you might like to hang out at this fun event, etc."

She responds in bold letters that she finds me repulsive and no way in hell would she ever hang out with me! [Um, OK, that would be a no...]

Now, I'm a good-looking, fit, albeit aging guy, who she's seen interacting pleasantly with people of all stripes (and their dogs). So why she would choose to respond in an ugly, hostile manner does not compute (she's probably just about 5 years younger). I take it as her having big issues (self-esteem or past-abuse from men, or drug or psychological problems, or who knows?).

Anyone else have any horror story "dating" encounters?
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Old 04-30-2012, 11:56 AM
 
Location: NJ
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I bet this is going to make the dog park a bit awkward.
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Old 04-30-2012, 12:00 PM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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Clearly she isn't a good person after all. Unfortunately, you learned this by being the focus of her dysfunctional personality. On the bright side, maybe you can train your dog to pee on her!
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Old 04-30-2012, 12:02 PM
 
Location: Infernuan
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I've been rejected but never like that. Very ugly indeed on her part... she needs to learn how to be a human being first.
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Old 04-30-2012, 12:11 PM
 
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I'd much rather have that type of rejection than the girl that flirts with me, gives me her number saying she wants me to call her to go out sometime, then never answers or returns my call.
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Old 04-30-2012, 12:12 PM
 
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I decided to ask out this women I've chatted with and shared some laughs and dog appreciation at the dog park several times (having her email from a social group).

I ask her to a dog fundraiser event where you bring your dogs and compete in fun competitions like races and dress-ups. I say "thought you might like to hang out at this fun event, etc."

She responds in bold letters that she finds me repulsive and no way in hell would she ever hang out with me! [Um, OK, that would be a no...]

Now, I'm a good-looking, fit, albeit aging guy, who she's seen interacting pleasantly with people of all stripes (and their dogs). So why she would choose to respond in an ugly, hostile manner does not compute (she's probably just about 5 years younger). I take it as her having big issues (self-esteem or past-abuse from men, or drug or psychological problems, or who knows?).

Anyone else have any horror story "dating" encounters?
sounds like u didnt lose out on anything
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Old 04-30-2012, 12:16 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Did she confuse you with her mother? Ex? Boss? I agree that your dog should learn a new trick when he sees her...hehe...I'm sorry she was so awful. I bet she doesn't really love her dog...bet it's all for show. Poor dog!
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Old 04-30-2012, 12:21 PM
 
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Old 04-30-2012, 12:21 PM
 
Location: USA
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Wow! Amazing how beyond rude people can get hiding behind texts and email.
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Old 04-30-2012, 12:22 PM
 
Location: USA
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Either she is a Psycho or your not as normal as you sound. Ive had some interesting dates but no crazies like that-"Knock on Wood"
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