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Old 05-11-2012, 09:59 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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i don't see what's so mutual enjoyment when one person always end up getting short end of the stick.

also i still beleive they feels resentment for the reasons i state. but alright if you don't beleive it.
If you play your cards right - there is no short end of the stick!

 
Old 05-11-2012, 10:00 PM
 
Location: Armsanta Sorad
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There are an equal amount of man-hating women offenders as there are women-hating men on these boards.
That is true. Unfortunately, most of the posters pay attention to the alleged "misogynist" posters. Misandrists are perfectly acceptable in society. A normal man says one thing, the brainwashed mainstream will gang up all over him with their typical shaming language.
 
Old 05-11-2012, 10:00 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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If you play your cards right - there is no short end of the stick!

don't matter what you do one person going to end up getting it. that's why most these people that gets together don't stay together. i don't see what's so enjoyable about all of that.
 
Old 05-11-2012, 10:03 PM
 
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don't matter what you do one person going to end up getting it. that's why most these people that gets together don't stay together. i don't see what's so enjoyable about all of that.
In happy marriages, tho, I think each will get the short end of the stick in one area or the next. My husband has to mow the lawn and take out the garbage and recycling. I don't help at all. I have to do the budget and pay the bills, even tho I hate it. There are all kinds of things like that. It's just how it goes.
 
Old 05-11-2012, 10:03 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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don't matter what you do one person going to end up getting it. that's why most these people that gets together don't stay together. i don't see what's so enjoyable about all of that.
I guess I should have italicized short. I was joking.

I don't want to get into this again with you - but not every man is horrible and not every relationship is awful. My husband is a wonderful man and our marriage is awesome! My father was a wonderful man, too - and my parents were happily married for over 30 years.
 
Old 05-11-2012, 10:05 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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In happy marriages, tho, I think each will get the short end of the stick in one area or the next. My husband has to mow the lawn and take out the garbage and recycling. I don't help at all. I have to do the budget and pay the bills, even tho I hate it. There are all kinds of things like that. It's just how it goes.

happy marriages -- even then i'm talking about when it all fall apart (not you) one party end up really messed up usually (the woman and her kids). i don't see how any of that was even worth it then? just seem like a waste of lets say 10 years.
 
Old 05-11-2012, 10:07 PM
 
Location: Lower east side of Toronto
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not saying i am not trustworthy but that is true that you can't see me so you really should not trust me. you sound too trusting and that is dangerous. the best thing to do is trust people as far as u can throw them. that's what my mom always said....i do agree with you that men and women expect the other to make them happy. i beleive when that doesn't happen they feel duped. like they were promised something they weren't actually promised. anyways i beleive the men never happy with that status quo and grass is always greener.

sorry but we just don't live in a world where you can be trusting of strangers. get ripped off.
Your view of the world is much darker than mine---if a person is a stranger- befriend them..as for promises...and being duped...get over it- if you want to be a mentor for any of the young men and woman partaking in this thread- don't project your disappointments...the past is gone- teach them to be open and trusting---better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all----good night my friend.
 
Old 05-11-2012, 10:08 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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I guess I should have italicized short. I was joking.

I don't want to get into this again with you - but not every man is horrible and not every relationship is awful. My husband is a wonderful man and our marriage is awesome! My father was a wonderful man, too - and my parents were happily married for over 30 years.

oh. oops sometimes i do not catch on to jokes/references

no not saying they are all awful relationship saying most of them end up awful. that is plain statistics. you and your parents that was a crapshoot in which you each 'won.' what you think the odds of that happening? it's so slim it's not even funny.
 
Old 05-11-2012, 10:09 PM
 
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Once again, the glass is always half empty.
 
Old 05-11-2012, 10:10 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Once again, the glass is always half empty.

so? it's not law for it to be half full.
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