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Old 08-04-2012, 09:34 PM
 
Location: My House
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Leagues don't actually exist. They're in your mind.

Find people with common interests. That's always good. People you enjoy being around.


It's not that complicated.
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Old 08-04-2012, 09:35 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Patrick Swayze knew what league he was in
"No one puts Baby in the corner."
 
Old 08-04-2012, 09:38 PM
 
Location: Brooklyn, New York
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Stop letting yourself be reduced to numbers you should know your worth.
 
Old 08-04-2012, 09:39 PM
 
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I am in the independent, confident & strong league. I can rock a mini skirt with high heels & I can pump iron or train bjj alongside the boys.

The only rating that matters to me is the pain scale one.
 
Old 08-04-2012, 09:42 PM
 
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I dont know why there is such a need to believe in nonsense like leagues or 1-10 ratings. It is so high school. Please grow up before its too late. There is no such thing as being out of someones league.
 
Old 08-04-2012, 09:45 PM
 
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Stuart Smalley's famous quote - YouTube
 
Old 08-04-2012, 09:46 PM
 
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The moment you are no longer flattered by someone's compliment, nor offended by someones criticism of you is the moment you will have found the greatest gift on earth. Know who you are without anyone's else input. Who made these people so holy that they can put you in a league or even begin to rate you? Ridiculous. Have they met everyone on planet earth? Just how do they come up with this system? Oh wait a minute....I know--ego. Makes them feel powerful and in control when they create their own worldly system to put others in. Learn to live on your own terms and stop allowing people to create your identity. I hope you get there one day.
 
Old 08-04-2012, 09:47 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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well if the good looking/attractive men aren't interested in you also if they tend to pay more attention to your female friends (that you consider to be less attractive then you) that should give you a clue as to where you fall.
 
Old 08-04-2012, 09:58 PM
 
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I thought I was a 6/7 at one point, but I was told VERY bluntly by some old coworkers that I'm firmly a 4. They actually had a debate over it right in front of me.

So, my league is slightly below average. If you want to know, ask some guys what they think, especially if they've known you a long time and have some booze in them. They'll tell you the truth, but you may not like it.
Yea, but it could've just been a bunch of guys being jerks. Did you ever reject their advances, even indirectly? Some guys get angry if you don't return their advances, or even reciprocate flirting, and all of a sudden an attractive girl becomes a 'well, she's not all that'.

I'm not saying this to make you feel better, you may be a '4', but sometimes people aren't being honest, just mean. I'd bet that you actually are a '6/7'.

I think more important than 'leagues' is 'type'. I know an attractive girl who prefers red-headed guys. An asian girl who only dates white guys, an asian girl who only dates asian guys...and so on. There are probably leagues, but many variables can contribute to a fluctuation in where one stands. Best bet is to stay in good shape and have a positive attitude.
 
Old 08-04-2012, 09:59 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, TN
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"No one puts Baby in the corner."
out of his league too
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