How does a woman know what league she is in?? (attracted, ugly)
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The OP adding a photo and receiving feedback from those of us who take the time to look at her photo would not answer her question. It is not like we could take a look at a photo and say authoritatively, "OP, you are a 7.36!"
OP, leagues are a fictitious and immature way to categorize people. Don't buy into it. So many posters have said that confidence, assertiveness, kindness is what makes someone special. I agree with them. Your physical appearance may be what initially draws someone to you, but it is your personality that will carry you through the long haul.
Since its hard for women to know what league they are in because very good looking men often lower their standards for sex...what are other ways for a woman to know what type of guys are in her league??
You can't know for the reasons you said. So it's the one who treats you the best.
"Many guys will pass on the hot girl with the snotty look on her face and go for the cute girl with personality."
I didn't say "fat", I said "cute" because you're right...often a guy will go for the snotty hot girl over the friendly fat girl.
It is often harder for an overweight/obese girl in that many guys prefer thinner women. I'm not going to state otherwise. All I'm saying is that, yes, looks are important to men, but attitude can carry a long way.
As I've often said, I have a female friend who is overweight and dates a lot because she gives off a positive vibe. I have a female friend who is overweight (and has a cuter face) who rarely dates because she's an entitled b**ch.
Agreed.
I don't respond to 'wordlife' I choose to use 'ignore function' for his/her messages on the forum here....anyways, I know you didn't say 'fat,' I was just saying it is something that men and some women wave around here and it's bullsh*t IMO. I know it is B.S. from personal experience (which I'm not going to go into) I will stand by what I said -- they talk a good game about wanting certain attitudes over other things and that's not the case IRL. It's just not. All that does is keep halfway decent women thinking they have a 'fair' chance with men if they have 'nice' attitudes and it's B.S. I seen it play out a million times with different women, some of them on this forum too. JJ seems to have what all these people call a 'nice personality' -- so what's her excuse? Exactly. She's not the only one either that has this 'issue.' Once most women realize it has less to do with whatever 'little miss sunshine' vibe they think they're putting off and more to do with how good they look -- then they can be more realistic.
Last edited by Doll Eyes; 08-05-2012 at 11:13 AM..
What is a good looking man to you? How does he look like?
I don't know. Attractive. What most women would consider to be an attractive man, I think if you look at a picture of a guy most women would agree whether he is ugly or not. I don't really 'register' their levels of attractiveness anymore at this point, just take note of it from time to time.
It wouldn't make any difference if everyone said she was a 10. In her own mind she's unattractive. When you have that low a self esteem you need to start working on yourself.
It wouldn't make any difference if everyone said she was a 10. In her own mind she's unattractive. When you have that low a self esteem you need to start working on yourself.
I wanted to know is your league based on the type of men who approach you? the type of men who will socialize with you??
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Yeah, that's why I keep saying don't post your picture here. Post it somewhere else, on some other site.
Very insightful
