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Old 09-15-2012, 10:12 PM
 
Location: US, California - federalist
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It's not the women's fault that he lied.
It is womens fault for not rewarding honesty as a form of respect toward fellow human beings more than lies.
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Old 09-15-2012, 10:13 PM
 
Location: US, California - federalist
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Fornication...I thought was a useless old biblical word...Most of my life I figured out I was a fornicator...Then I matured ...thinking I could regain my lost youth by going back to fornication was a bad idea...I tried it as if I was 25...it was a horrible degrading experience with complicated ugly drama later......This is from a male perspective- woman are not the only ones who do not like being used....I would never do it again- I would never become intimate with a woman who I did not love and found attractive...Kind of makes me want to take a shower for the soul...It is simply bad.
The only reason I use biblical terms is for the moral absolutism, "effect".
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Old 09-15-2012, 10:13 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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It is womens fault for not rewarding honesty as a form of respect toward fellow human beings more than lies.

why don't you repeat that 20 more times for the people who missed it the first 50.

at the very least, I mean bottom of the barrel thing you could do is at least own up to just being a run of the mill liar. Instead of passing the buck onto women you lie to. weasels.
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Old 09-15-2012, 10:14 PM
 
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It is womens fault for not rewarding honesty as a form of respect toward fellow human beings more than lies.
HUH? Newsflash...just because they aren't with you doesn't mean they are not "rewarding" honesty.
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Old 09-15-2012, 10:18 PM
 
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No - the difference is that I don't surround myself with the guys that try to pick me up. I've met my share of liars and creeps - I just had no interest in them. Life's too short to have undesirable people in your life.
They treat you as a friend and it will stay this way. Female friend is a different category, off-limits to sexual advances, we often joke that we couldn't date any of our female friends cause they know us too well and we know their ways, too
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Old 09-15-2012, 10:19 PM
 
Location: US, California - federalist
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I didn't say anything about honesty. I don't think he's being dishonest. I think he's a nut. I think he's confused (marriage and kids vs being a sociopath) and it's really too late for him. The brain stops being malleable by the mid-20s. People get in their groove and that's exactly where they stay.
Are you always that judgmental?
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Old 09-15-2012, 10:21 PM
 
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why don't you repeat that 20 more times for the people who missed it the first 50.
OMG, please no...he's starting to sound like Rainman.

"Dad lets me drive slow on the driveway. But not on Monday, definitely not on Monday. Uh oh, fifteen minutes to Judge Wapner"
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Old 09-15-2012, 10:21 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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They treat you as a friend and it will stay this way. Female friend is a different category, off-limits to sexual advances, we often joke that we couldn't date any of our female friends cause they know us too well and we know their ways, too
Well, I'm married so they don't have a choice in the matter. And some of my male friends are guys that I have either dated in the past or were interested in me. It's not the sexual advances that make a guy a creep - it's the way he makes them.
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Old 09-15-2012, 10:23 PM
 
Location: New Orleans
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Dude, I just searched through your posts. You wrote an "essay" on the "palliative effects of cannabis sativa" on cognitive dissonance. If you're smoking, I really, really suggest you stop and seek therapy to help you get back on the right track.
(addressed to daniel)
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Old 09-15-2012, 10:23 PM
 
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Are you always that judgmental?
Yes.
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