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No worries, I'm on my way to being forever alone at 40 so I follow that advice to a tee
I'm making great money right now. I don't know if I can take a corporate job of making just 50-60K
Dude, if you are making that much money, just go buy a Girlfriend Experience for yourself. Sex, kissing, cuddling, someone to listen to you vent. They do it all. Look it up. Watch the Soderbergh movie with Sasha Grey to get an idea what it is. Obviously go somewhere that it is legal. If i was making over 60k a year, i would definitely buy myself some company. I wouldn't think twice about it. Nobody has to know.
Although honestly, i still think there are a lot of ways you could meet a girl without paying for it, that you haven't tried yet.
99.999999999999999999% of women want a guy who is extremely charismatic and extroverted
I've never known a shy man who had any options at all dating wise. All the shy guys I know are forever alone all the time and maybe they get lucky once every 4 or 5 years to find a serious girlfriend
You've got something other than your opinion to back up your claim, right?
I have no desire for a charismatic and extroverted man in my life.
Explain why you think it's a generalization. Women who are attractive have no trouble finding nice single men. Women don't actually have to do much to be approached if they are decent looking. Even if a woman is socially awkward and shy she will still get offers. The OP even tried online dating and still had no success, and everyone knows how online dating is ridiculously easy for women. If you are a woman and men never express interest in you and you can't find nice men to date, it's because you're just not very attractive, and the men who you want to be interested in you are quite simply out of your league. That's just a fact.
I get told all the time that I'm good looking and had one woman say that I must get a lot of attention from men but the truth is that I get approached very little, either IRL or OL. Either these people are all lying, your theory is full of holes, or perhaps it doesn't matter at all if you're good looking once you're past a certain age. Maybe your theory gets truer the closer you are to 21? Though in fact most of the attention I got at that age was unwelcome as it had more to do with them wanting sex than looking for a relationship.
Maybe your theory gets truer the closer you are to 21? Though in fact most of the attention I got at that age was unwelcome as it had more to do with them wanting sex than looking for a relationship.
This is why good-looking women aren't taken and don't have "a gazillion" options.
You know, some of us guys are interested in a relationship. And I say that as a 21 year old.
This is true, too. I wouldn't paint all 20-21-year olds with the same brush. When I was that age, I knew guys who had already been married and divorced. They were definitely into commitment, they just hadn't made good choices.
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