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Old 10-25-2012, 01:18 PM
 
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OR...boys don't win because when they jerk off in public, they get caught and go to jail. Girls win.
Plus girls have all kinds of toys and devices for it too.

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It's just not a fair assessment to jump to the conclusion that women don't understand men's sex drive
I thought there was nothing to understand about men’s sex drive since men and women are not that different and women are supposed to be interested in sex as much. Differences are only seen on individual basis not gender and so on.

There are a few guys out there who have also rejected sex, as shocking as it may sound, sending women back home with blue ovaries.

 
Old 10-25-2012, 01:18 PM
 
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The desire is the same for both sexes, but the way it manifests itself is different. Men tend to focus on the phsyical, the superficial, and women get turned on by the emotional context. This is why porn for men and porn for women are so different. A man would probably find lady friendly porn boring, as it doesn't cut straight to the sexy time. But it's the story and emotional connection between the parties in the scene that turns women on.
Yeah, because they are such strong story lines and well written.
 
Old 10-25-2012, 01:19 PM
 
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Some women think about sex and act on those thoughts often, others do not. Once again there is NO BLANKET that will fit over EVERY WOMAN.
You should seek a new hobby to find your answers, go outside and enjoy nature, talk to women and ask them what their thoughts are. No one here can answer for anyone else in the world. We are all human and we all have different ideas about everything including sex and whether we wish to share specifics with others or not.
 
Old 10-25-2012, 01:20 PM
 
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So tell me, how many times have you ran to the bathroom to jerk off to a man that you saw that day? How many times have you jerked off during class or work? How many times have you spent the whole day jerking off? Trust me, its a lot less for women than men.
You realize a woman normally requires more than a passing thought to urge her to go to the trouble if practically undressing to relieve her sexual tension, right?

How often I would've if I could stand up to pee and it was as easy access as it is for a guy?


Plenty.


Ask me if I EVER have? Okay. I'll play along. I have. I'm a free spirit. It's just not the norm. Too inconvenient.


And, no. Never anywhere that'd be illegal.

Though, I have had sex in places that would've gotten me and my SO arrested if we got caught.
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Old 10-25-2012, 01:21 PM
 
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The desire is the same for both sexes, but the way it manifests itself is different. Men tend to focus on the phsyical, the superficial, and women get turned on by the emotional context. This is why porn for men and porn for women are so different. A man would probably find lady friendly porn boring, as it doesn't cut straight to the sexy time. But it's the story and emotional connection between the parties in the scene that turns women on.
I guess I am one of those minorities on this one too. That is the reason why I have rejected having sex with gorgeous women, heck, even an erotic dancer. I want the whole package, not just sex (physical aspect). So women want sex for the beautiful sweet sentimental aspect and men for the physical? I guess it makes sense why women can be heard saying that men are dogs, just want sex, etc. and why women are the ones who reject it, not men.
 
Old 10-25-2012, 01:23 PM
 
Location: Texas
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The desire is the same for both sexes, but the way it manifests itself is different. Men tend to focus on the phsyical, the superficial, and women get turned on by the emotional context. This is why porn for men and porn for women are so different. A man would probably find lady friendly porn boring, as it doesn't cut straight to the sexy time. But it's the story and emotional connection between the parties in the scene that turns women on.
I guess this is what I've been trying to say...you've summed it up well!
 
Old 10-25-2012, 01:25 PM
 
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I am thinking about sex now only because of this topic. I hope my wife is too.
 
Old 10-25-2012, 01:25 PM
 
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If they had the same desires, why do gay guys have much more sex than lesbians despite the risks?
 
Old 10-25-2012, 01:26 PM
 
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I guess I am one of those minorities on this one too. That is the reason why I have rejected having sex with gorgeous women, heck, even an erotic dancer. I want the whole package, not just sex (physical aspect). So women want sex for the beautiful sweet sentimental aspect and men for the physical? I guess it makes sense why women can be heard saying that men are dogs, just want sex, etc. and why women are the ones who reject it, not men.
Sometimes I really like you.

Don't tell. Shhh.
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Old 10-25-2012, 01:26 PM
 
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I am thinking about sex now only because of this topic. I hope my wife is too.
Refer her to this thread.
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