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Old 11-07-2012, 07:10 PM
 
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Yep, I definitely feel that way. Things just don't work out for me when it comes to LTR's.
If I was your age, you'd be my type.
I am sure there are *a number* of men who approach women out of the blue and attempt conversation that doesn't involve trying to bed women. Surely I can't be the only one because I've seen many guys do it before (though I don't know what their ages are or what type of conversation they have).

I am horrible at telling age. .

Although Id have to say that LTR doesn't work out that well for me either, despite having been in great relationships (up to a point, something always messes them up)
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Old 11-07-2012, 07:21 PM
 
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I am courageous as hell. I always go after the most cute women. Been this way since I was a kid. If you aren't courageous enough, you're gonna need someone to push you.
You don't get frustrated when you get shot down? I no it's not the end of the world, but I'm very shy to approach. Much more comfortable trying to connect with people in a business setting than approaching women cold.
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Old 11-07-2012, 07:38 PM
 
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You don't get frustrated when you get shot down? I no it's not the end of the world, but I'm very shy to approach. Much more comfortable trying to connect with people in a business setting than approaching women cold.
Most of the time I get shot down because they are taken or they dont feel like talking. Doesn't bother me, I leave them alone, depending on how the conversation goes. There are also plenty of flakes, but I got used to that a long time ago.

I will say that I am in the top range of attractive men, and tend to get checked out often. When that happens, I approach.

I go after attractive women my age. At this age though, only a few of them are looking for a relationship, so it's a tough market, given the fact that there aren't many attractive women.

Also, i am the opposite, I don't feel comfortable approaching working people or people at work.

With that said I got someone's number today. Hopefully it will lead to something, but you know how many women play games.

Also I don't tolerate women who play games. So that also a reason why my dry spells tend to have a bit of length to them.
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Old 11-07-2012, 07:40 PM
 
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Yes and that's why I have a stockade of AA batteries..
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Old 11-07-2012, 07:44 PM
 
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Yes and that's why I have a stockade of AA batteries..
Have you ever considered living like a chastise monk?
It will bring a change to your life.
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Old 11-07-2012, 07:46 PM
 
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Yes and that's why I have a stockade of AA batteries..

You look attractive in your avatar. Why not post a profile on any dating site and pick from the 50,000 guys courting you?
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Old 11-07-2012, 07:48 PM
 
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You look attractive in your avatar. Why not post a profile on any dating site and pick from the 50,000 guys courting you?
Avatar?? That's me dear in the flesh..

And I have posted on online dating sites and have had nothing but nightmare dates..I'd rather stick to the batteries and my cat
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Old 11-07-2012, 07:51 PM
 
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Avatar?? That's me dear in the flesh..
I know. Avatar doesn't mean somebody else


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And I have posted on online dating sites and have had nothing but nightmare dates..I'd rather stick to the batteries and my cat


Come to Chicago, I'll treat you like a queen
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Old 11-07-2012, 07:54 PM
 
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I know. Avatar doesn't mean somebody else






Come to Chicago, I'll treat you like a queen
I don't think you can, it's pretty hard to actually treat a woman like royalty.
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Old 11-07-2012, 07:56 PM
 
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I don't think you can, it's pretty hard to actually treat a woman like royalty.


Just an exaggeration


I am very nice to everybody, regardless of anything else
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