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I once dated a girl with whom I got along great - similar interests, the sex was great, and so on. But she suddenly changed on our fifth date and was moody, bitchy and annoying. I finally dropped her ass off at home and left. She called me on my cell and confessed she was "stressed out" waiting for me to propose, that plenty of other men would have done that by the fifth date. I told her "Seeya."
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I once dated a girl with whom I got along great - similar interests, the sex was great, and so on. But she suddenly changed on our fifth date and was moody, bitchy and annoying. I finally dropped her ass off at home and left. She called me on my cell and confessed she was "stressed out" waiting for me to propose, that plenty of other men would have done that by the fifth date. I told her "Seeya."
This is a true story and has not been embellished in any way. I am Pinckney12 and I endorse this message.
She's right, many men would have. In fact I've had guys propose on a FIRST date. However, first or fifth date is WAY too soon and I wouldn't expect one before 6 months.
Oh, I get it now, you're not opposed to being on the hook for someone's children as long as there is no ex.
Well, I probably wouldn't want to support someone else's kids but in cases of divorce obviously he's spending so much on his kids and ex and not much left for himself.
Well, I probably wouldn't want to support someone else's kids but in cases of divorce obviously he's spending so much on his kids and ex and not much left for himself.
How did you get this skewed view of reality?
If the kids live with him because of adoption or his spouse dying he's still spending money on his kids.
If the kids live with him because of adoption or his spouse dying he's still spending money on his kids.
Perhaps, which is why I generally avoid them too but there might be exceptions. However with a divorce he is supporting two households and might even be supporting an ex-wife. However, I can marry a widowed man or a man who adopted as a single dad but not a divorced dad. Plus, there is drama with an ex but not if he adopted as a single dad. A man with kids out of wedlock isn't someone who shares my morals.
Perhaps, which is why I generally avoid them too but there might be exceptions. However with a divorce he is supporting two households and might even be supporting an ex-wife. However, I can marry a widowed man or a man who adopted as a single dad but not a divorced dad. Plus, there is drama with an ex but not if he adopted as a single dad. A man with kids out of wedlock isn't someone who shares my morals.
You mean the morals that seem to imply that you don't want to date someone who may have other priorities for spending money besides you?
Yes but do the math. He wants kids by October 2013. That is about 10 months from now, so pretty much she's got to get pregnant in January at the latest.
He's either yanking her chain, is serious and has no clue, or just says the first thing that comes to his mind without thinking about it.
First thing that comes to mind for sure. He also told me on the first date that he knocked up his girlfriend in high school, but she had an abortion. Not really first date conversation material.
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Interesting, you'd think most of the guys were looking for that sort of thing, not women, but both sexes get horny and have their urges.
A 29 year old baptist youth minister VIRGIN? And she lost it while just messing around? Hmm, some serious issues exist with that one. You live in the south?
Yeah, ever seen Wedding Crashers? "I thought guys like it when girls say that..."
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Originally Posted by Pinckney12
I once dated a girl with whom I got along great - similar interests, the sex was great, and so on. But she suddenly changed on our fifth date and was moody, bitchy and annoying. I finally dropped her ass off at home and left. She called me on my cell and confessed she was "stressed out" waiting for me to propose, that plenty of other men would have done that by the fifth date. I told her "Seeya."
This is a true story and has not been embellished in any way. I am Pinckney12 and I endorse this message.
You're such a hot commodity Pinckney, how could she not want a ring from you after 5 amazing dates?
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