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Readyjack.you got a few choices,
you could talk to her about the possibility of an abortion,
you could feel blessed that you will be having another child,
you could walk out on the whole relationship.
If you love her chalk it up to Sh.t happens and in the future you'll be taking an extra kid on your travels.
I'd also get the procedure done asap
Well, yeah. MrsCPG and myself represent two of the most fertile bloodlines in human history. All I had to do was cast a smoldering glance her way and -- Voila! -- she was in the family way.
My wife and I were the same way. All we had to do was think about having another and she was pregnant.
I took care of it after she said she was willing to keep popping them out until I did. The pain pills made me sick to my stomach, so no joy there.
Get a vasectomy and don't tell her. Simple and problem solved.
And I would add, don't tell the doc you are married either.
We went to the consult together and the doctor would NOT perform a vasectomy without my consent. If I didn't sign off on the papers, he wouldn't do it. It was an issue for me.
I really cannot believe people are speaking of abortion and divorce in this circumstance. Does their marriage mean nothing? Does he not love her and their family?
I understand his being upset but really? Divorce and abortion?
it seems this type of deceit from woman is becoming more and more commonplace. It absolutely outrages me. My pet peeve has always been lying and deception, but this type is worse because you are creating life haphazardly. I'd be outraged. This type of deception in a marriage is just another reason why i feel marriage is antiquated. You think you know someone...
Just wondering, OP: how long have you known this about her? 10 years? Or is this something that came to light after you were married?
Well, I only knew her for a year before we married, but yes, I knew; I was a kid that just wanted to do the right thing. I didnt know it would become a pattern. I was an entitled spoiled little lazy idealist brat when I got her pregnant in HS, and to survive, I joined the Army and grew up.
Its starting to sound like she's losing respect for him as she's basically sitting back and letting him fix everything, and just added more and more stress. Lying about birth control is usually a big no-no, it opens up a pandora's box of "what if she's lying about other things?" And it can be one nasty downward spiral.
Of course, it's still an accidental pregnancy and its square one all over again. Sorry for your problem, I can't really give any advice other than to wish you luck and to stay strong and show your wife some of that discipline lol. You may not want to trust her on her word for a while though, at least to keep you out of any more trouble.
Well, I only knew her for a year before we married, but yes, I knew; I was a kid that just wanted to do the right thing. I didnt know it would become a pattern. I was an entitled spoiled little lazy idealist brat when I got her pregnant in HS, and to survive, I joined the Army and grew up.
Wow. That really fills out the picture. Thanks for the disclosure, OP.
I really cannot believe people are speaking of abortion and divorce in this circumstance. Does their marriage mean nothing? Does he not love her and their family?
I understand his being upset but really? Divorce and abortion?
I don't know. I'd be really pissed if I was OP and would certainly consider divorce.
That's a huge breach of trust right there.
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