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I have been celibate for 20 years rather than run into someone who could give me something I don't want ..... and I don't trust many people.
Whatever rocks your boat! But your argument about not being involved with someone who's had multiple partners because of the STD factor is a bit lame. Someone can contract an STD having had only one partner while others who've had multiple partners can remain free and clear their whole lives. The odds of course are greater the more partners but I think your celibacy decision is based on way more than just that factor.
I believe in safe sex practices and Std testing. Too much stigma over sex partners especially for women...I never tell and if you press me it's a deal breaker. How many people I slept with between the ages of 15-25 has no bearing on the person I am at almost 40.
Not exactly sure why double digits means promiscuous in your world, but Im going to repeat myself once again, since so many people today seem to miss this. In the eyes of our society, a virgin man is an equal of a female ****. There is a reason men usualy round up the number of sexual partners and women do the exact opposite, when asked about their sexual past and experience. Depite what women may tell you, they vigurously seek out men who are experienced sexualy and ignore virgins and inexperienced guys. Men seek the exact opposite and the less sexual partners a woman has had, the bigger the prize she becomes. Its the truth and there is only one.
Not exactly sure why doublke digits means promiscuous in your world, but Im going to repeat myself once again, since so many peoiple today seem to miss this. In the eyes of our society, a virgin man is an equal of a female ****. THere is a reason men usualy round up the number of sexual partners and women do the exact opposite, when asked about their sexual past and experience. Depite what women may tell you, they vigurously seek out men who are experienced sexualy and ignore virgins and inexperienced guys. Men seek the exact opposite and the less sexual partners a woman has had, the bigger the prize she becomes. Its the truth and there is only one and only.
Men have no clue about women's actual number, unless they are open about it. You can date a "prize" for years and not know she had 100+ partners. It's not like shes walking around wearing a scarlet letter. Male virgins are easily as hard to detect. Obviously, a women will know when she goes to have sex with him (maybe some less experienced women wont).
People's numbers aren't plastered on their foreheads. No one really knows what they're getting, unless the other is honest.
She shouldn't tell him, and if it ever comes up, she should just say she's had enough experience to know she's made the right choice with him. Unless he's someone who really does not care but is still curious - even then it's best not to give him a chance to get upset.
Now that, is an artful phrase. Well done, in my book! If STD's are involved, or children, things that are current and future, those you need full disclosure honesty.
Men have no clue about women's actual number, unless they are open about it. You can date a "prize" for years and not know she had 100+ partners. It's not like shes walking around wearing a scarlet letter. Male virgins are easily as hard to detect. Obviously, a women will know when she goes to have sex with him (maybe some less experienced women wont).
People's numbers aren't plastered on their foreheads. No one really knows what they're getting, unless the other is honest.
Thats nice, but it has nothing to do with what I posted.
Depite what women may tell you, they vigurously seek out men who are experienced sexualy and ignore virgins and inexperienced guys. Men seek the exact opposite and the less sexual partners a woman has had, the bigger the prize she becomes. Its the truth and there is only one.
No, that is not the truth but is simply your opinion.
Men have no clue about women's actual number, unless they are open about it. You can date a "prize" for years and not know she had 100+ partners. It's not like shes walking around wearing a scarlet letter. Male virgins are easily as hard to detect. Obviously, a women will know when she goes to have sex with him (maybe some less experienced women wont).
People's numbers aren't plastered on their foreheads. No one really knows what they're getting, unless the other is honest.
True.
You know what I find odd? That so many of the posters say men look for women who are virginal. Ha. I don't think so. MOST men look for a woman who is willing, at least in the western cultures I've ever known. This is NOT true in Iran, Saudia Arabia, Afghanistan, and other highly religious middle eastern cultures that I have known. And this is not an Islamic thing. I've seen similar attitudes among older Catholics in Latin America. In the middle east, Isreal seems more modernly western in this regard. But in Afghanistan, as I understand, you can still find men marrying 8-10 year old girls to insure their virginity.
Back to men seeking willing women. Virginal woman are usually not willing - which is why they are still virginal. Nothing applies to everybody, sure. I've known peeps, both sexes, waiting for the "right" one to lose their cherry and then (hopefully) claim for life.
On the other hand, extreme promiscuity is also a turn-off, but we are talking extreme here.
You know another odd thing? Back when I worked in a job where I got to watch people a lot, I used to see more married women playing the field than men. They'd have a fling (or two), and then usually go back to the marriage, I guess realizing they had made a decent choice the first time! Sometimes things went the other way. But guys who did play around, it seemed to me, usually did it serially - repeaters. Once a player, always a player, unless somebody got their number but good, that kind of thing. But when they got an opportunity, ohenry led the way.
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