Should you reveal your sexual past or your partner? (boyfriends, man, single)

[Datafeed]

Originally Posted by Timmyy

Are you the author of 50 Shades of Grey.

Cough, Cough. B.S.!

Dude, don't hate. I used to have three different ones per day in Manilla and Bangkok.

[NC~Mom]

No...people want honesty...but they can rarely handle honesty.

[GoodSchoolols]

It only matters who you are with now. Although, having in the double digits speaks to the type of personality you are and might not do well with someone in the single digits for the long haul.

[LakeShoreSoxGo]

Women will just lie about it anyways, so what's the point? You can either handle the fact that your SO is attempting(or pretending) to be a reformed ho, or you can not. Either way, nothing changes the past.

[NC~Mom]

Originally Posted by GoodSchoolols

It only matters who you are with now. Although, having in the double digits speaks to the type of personality you are and might not do well with someone in the single digits for the long haul.

I also think age factors into your total as well.
Someone who has been single for 30 years could sleep with 1 person per year and be in the double digits...I don't think this qualifies as being promiscuous.

[asitshouldbe]

There would be no reason to tell him about the number of men she slept with, what happened before they met is really none of his business. Telling him will put that image in his mind and why does he want to think about his future wife having sex with other guys. Leave it alone.

[lmw36]

I know my ex slept with people previously, as did I. I really don't care the number, it means nothing to our relationship now. Whether it was 10 or 100. I know he is clean and so am I.

I never really understood why couples bother telling each other, then have the nerve to get jealous when they wanted to know in the first place.

[Raffael]

lol @ people in here believing it's impossible to have slept with 300 women..

it's called Thailand..... and all you need is a pale skin and European / Western looks to get laid.. I'm not talking about hookers either

they'll sleep with you, get you coffee in the morning and then text you for months to come asking how you're doing etc. it's sad but it's reality.

[joeclyde]

There is a double standard and I think women like sleeping with male whores. It makes them think they have something that other women desire.

[Raffael]

I'd rather have my future girlfriend lie to me about how many men she slept with than tell me she slept with over 20 different dudes.

Yes, I'm very serious.