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This is a misconception. Women don't really notice if a guy's muscular or not, and they don't like overly-muscular guys. Work on your low self-esteem. That'll pay off a lot better. If you get muscular, you'll still be stuck wit the same depressive personality. It won't work.
Actualy, working out has incredible psychological and physiological benefits. Its the most common doctor suggested lifestyle change for those dealing with depression.
That's right college is keeping me from getting laid.
I have heard of guys choose to focus on their studies instead of relationships in college, but blaming being in college for not getting laid? What?
Being in college is a TERRIFIC environment for developing intimate relationships. College generally is comprised of a student body of late teen to young 20 somethings, with lots of hormones, in a close environment, with dorm rooms, town houses, complete with parties, meeting places, etc, all of which generally facilitiate relationships. Not hinder them.
The rest of your post is just a pitty party. If your not happy with your current life situation, make changes. No job? Get one. Hate living at home? Dorm at the school, or get some friends together to rent a place. Don't want to take a girl home to your place? Go to her's.
I love big arms. Nothing gets me hot faster than a pair of nicely sculpted biceps.
You are right, if a guy is not on hormone muscle therapy, the size of biceps is a good predictor of his testosterone levels. Don't expect much of "maleness" from the muscle-less guys.
Life is about making choices. If you choose to go to college, which is commendable....but, cannot afford to rent your own place because you do not have a job...That is a personal choice. And, believe me, there is so much more to being in a viable relationship than just getting laid. Karma may be at work here until you develop a more mature attitude...
But, take it from this old gal....You are only a few years away from finishing probably the best and first of many life choices. Getting your education is forever....Hang in there. And, truthfully....waiting on a relationship until you have your own place is a choice...You could have a relationship without a place of your own. Think about this.
I don't know what you're doing wrong because college is a veritable orgy.
I know, right?* Doesn't sound like the OP has any friends, has joined any study groups or clubs or has in any way made his presence known to his target demographic.
* there are of course plenty of people in college who aren't getting laid on the regular, but at no time will you be surrounded by other young, single peopleas you are in college.
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I don't know what you're doing wrong because college is a veritable orgy.
I have heard of guys choose to focus on their studies instead of relationships in college, but blaming being in college for not getting laid? What? 
