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That's right college is keeping me from getting laid. The fact that I don't have a job, or much of any social value is the reason I am not confident. I also don't have a place of my own, yet. I would not be able to bring any girls in since I live in a small apartment with my parents and brother. There's just no way I'll be losing my virginity in this current scenario I find myself in.
If only brothels would be legal in the states I'd just pay for sex and become more confident in myself and with women. I need to have my own life before I can have a girlfriend, while people who go away for college can screw whenever they want because they live with each other.
I tell you, if I had my own life I'd be picking up random chicks in the street. But I just don't see the point in having a relationship If I still live with my parents. I have no value, and this bothers me greatly.
Is my thinking flawed or should I suppress myself now then go crazy after I graduate? I want to add i'm bothered because I am 21 years old been going to college since 2009, but looking at 3 more years of schooling and staying at home, career-less.
That's right college is keeping me from getting laid. The fact that I don't have a job, or much of any social value is the reason I am not confident. I also don't have a place of my own, yet. I would not be able to bring any girls in since I live in a small apartment with my parents and brother. There's just no way I'll be losing my virginity in this current scenario I find myself in.
If only brothels would be legal in the states I'd just pay for sex and become more confident in myself and with women. I need to have my own life before I can have a girlfriend, while people who go away for college can screw whenever they want because they live with each other.
I tell you, if I had my own life I'd be picking up random chicks in the street. But I just don't see the point in having a relationship If I still live with my parents. I have no value, and this bothers me greatly.
Is my thinking flawed or should I suppress myself now then go crazy after I graduate? I want to add i'm bothered because I am 21 years old been going to college since 2009, but looking at 3 more years of schooling and staying at home, career-less.
That's right college is keeping me from getting laid. The fact that I don't have a job, or much of any social value is the reason I am not confident. I also don't have a place of my own, yet. I would not be able to bring any girls in since I live in a small apartment with my parents and brother. There's just no way I'll be losing my virginity in this current scenario I find myself in.
If only brothels would be legal in the states I'd just pay for sex and become more confident in myself and with women. I need to have my own life before I can have a girlfriend, while people who go away for college can screw whenever they want because they live with each other.
I tell you, if I had my own life I'd be picking up random chicks in the street. But I just don't see the point in having a relationship If I still live with my parents. I have no value, and this bothers me greatly.
Is my thinking flawed or should I suppress myself now then go crazy after I graduate? I want to add i'm bothered because I am 21 years old been going to college since 2009, but looking at 3 more years of schooling and staying at home, career-less.
If you are so cavalier about "picking up chicks in the street" and taking them home to bang them, maybe you should keep your twig and berries in your shorts until you complete college. You will thanks yourself when you're 40 and won't have random, scabby flare-ups.
If you are so cavalier about "picking up chicks in the street" and taking them home to bang them, maybe you should keep your twig and berries in your shorts until you complete college. You will thanks yourself when you're 40 and won't have random, scabby flare-ups.
It's not only about sex, but it may seem like it. It's my entire lack of social value. It's an enigma to me. There are highschool students getting more action than me. I've thought about going to clubs to get pictures of me in cool settings to pimp out whatever online profile I may have like okcupid or facebook. In both those sites my pages are pretty abandoned since they are embarrassing and shameful to me. I guess my problem is I don't want the girl to learn how much I suck.
It's not only about sex, but it may seem like it. It's my entire lack of social value. It's an enigma to me. There are highschool students getting more action than me. I've thought about going to clubs to get pictures of me in cool settings to pimp out whatever online profile I may have like okcupid or facebook. In both those sites my pages are pretty abandoned since they are embarrassing and shameful to me. I guess my problem is I don't want the girl to learn how much I suck.
Maybe you are too self aware. Take at least one day off a week from your studies and go have a beer or two at the most popular college bar. Make sure you have no motive other than hanging out and getting to know anyone you run into. If you are not into drinking do it anyways and just get a water on the rocks.
It's not only about sex, but it may seem like it. It's my entire lack of social value. It's an enigma to me. There are highschool students getting more action than me. I've thought about going to clubs to get pictures of me in cool settings to pimp out whatever online profile I may have like okcupid or facebook. In both those sites my pages are pretty abandoned since they are embarrassing and shameful to me. I guess my problem is I don't want the girl to learn how much I suck.
Honestly, there is no worse "suckage" than low self-esteem. ****, man, at least act like you don't suck.
Look, this whole "sex with a female" thing is not all that difficult to figure out, just be normal. If a female senses any sort of weirdness or self-esteem issues, you may as well just walk away, because it's going nowhere.
Just focus on school, when it's time to get laid, it will happen. Or hell, go to Craigslist personals section if you need it that bad.
Happy hunting, Andy
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