I will never have a girlfriend until I graduate from college. (date, male)

[Checkered24]

Originally Posted by BradPiff

College is awesome but not every guy is getting laid at the rate they say in the movies. Some guys don't get laid at all.

Very very true.

College presents the opportunity to meet and mingle with a lot of similar age individuals who have similar goals (college, career, etc), which definately can facilitate meeting potential mates (or people for ONS's), but doesn't make it automatic.

I focused on my studies far more than women in college. I was not really involved in the partying or lifestyle typically depicted in the movies. That was my choice, and I am happy with it. I am sure, had I wanted to seek out a different path in my college years, I could have met a lot of women.

[LakeShoreSoxGo]

Just smoke some weed and everything will work out fine

[BobPollard]

College-aged woman probably don't want to get with socially awkward dudes any more than women of another age bracket do.

[redberry rose]

you can always take the women to a hotel. you dont want to bring random girls back to your home anyway

[kimbo28]

Originally Posted by RememberMee

You are right, if a guy is not on hormone muscle therapy, the size of biceps is a good predictor of his testosterone levels. Don't expect much of "maleness" from the muscle-less guys.

Never said anything about maleness, it's personal preference but it's not like I'd date someone solely because their arms are big...

[El Dudero]

OP, You are focusing entirely too much on getting laid. You think about it too much and worry about why you aren't getting laid. You should be out dating, ask a cute girl to a study session for a test. That's how I met most girls in college, you study together and then go for drinks later in the weekand next thing you know...your getting laid, OP.

[zentropa]

Originally Posted by Checkered24

I have heard of guys choose to focus on their studies instead of relationships in college, but blaming being in college for not getting laid? What?

Being in college is a TERRIFIC environment for developing intimate relationships. College generally is comprised of a student body of late teen to young 20 somethings, with lots of hormones, in a close environment, with dorm rooms, town houses, complete with parties, meeting places, etc, all of which generally facilitiate relationships. Not hinder them.

The rest of your post is just a pitty party. If your not happy with your current life situation, make changes. No job? Get one. Hate living at home? Dorm at the school, or get some friends together to rent a place. Don't want to take a girl home to your place? Go to her's.

I know, right? There are not enough in the world for this guy.

OP, may I ask, who exactly decided that you have no "social value."?

You are shaping up to be the kind of person man, woman and beast run far away from. The lethal combination of self-pity and blame is going to bury you.

[El Dudero]

Originally Posted by dave nz

The tip I will give you is.....get a decent car, if you have to get a loan so beit. Having a decent and attractive means of transportation, will dramatically increase your chances with the college girls. Some college girls have no transport. You can take them places and get to know them that way. Landing the girls aside, it will give you your own personal freedom and independence you lack in not having your own place.

Relying on a new car to help with getting girls, is a very rookie move. College girls don't care about that ****.

He needs to learn to develop communication skills with the girls before doing anything else. Like I said, Ask a girl to a study session and get to know her. A car isn't going to do **** for him.

[howdydoody342]

ask a girl out, go to a party and just start convos with random girls.. when u leave college u dont realize how easy u had it

[GoodSchoolols]

College is preventing me from getting laid. Wow, never thought I would hear that one!