Bad girls vs Good mums (wife, lover, child support, daughter)

[AJsMOM83]

Originally Posted by Elained10

Lol I think it depends where you live and how high your standards are

I agree. I have a friend who has 3 kids under 10 (she's my age-29) who has no problem finding a man. 9/10 times they end up moving in together, but these men aren't exactly the pick of the litter....

[Baldrick]

Originally Posted by Elained10

I did not say all guys do this I said some I was very careful in my wording and I also said this was based on my experience and opinion of what I've seen.

Your right, you didn't say "all guys" and your wrong, you didn't say "some" and nor did I. You gave your opinion based on what you'd seen and so did I.

[14Bricks]

Originally Posted by TaoistDude

I agree with Jedi. Especially if you are willing to date men with children of their own.

Thats what I don't understand, why don't people who have kids date other people who have kids? Problem solved! You can be just like the brady bunch.

[Prince_Frog]

Originally Posted by Elained10

Mircea......I think I have a good attitude but thanks for your advice. Personally I think you need an attitude adjustment also

Dilbert: Comparative Lit and Positive Attitude Video - YouTube

[Elained10]

Originally Posted by 14Bricks

Thats what I don't understand, why don't people who have kids date other people who have kids? Problem solved! You can be just like the brady bunch.

That's such a stupid thing to say there's no way you can be serious.

[Elained10]

Originally Posted by Prince_Frog

Dilbert: Comparative Lit and Positive Attitude Video - YouTube

Lol

[Toroid]

Originally Posted by Elained10

So I take it you don't date single parents

No, I don't for the reasons I stated in the two sentences following what you bolded. Again it is my preference based on how I currently live and would like to continue living for a little while longer.

[Elained10]

Originally Posted by Toroid

No, I don't for the reasons I stated in the two sentences following what you bolded. Again it is my preference based on how I currently live and would like to continue living for a little while longer.

Each to their own

[Seekingcreativity]

Originally Posted by amanda0808

That's not the point of my post. I'm just trying to illustrate how easily it is for a lot of single moms to automatically get disqualified just because we have kids, without the guys getting to know anything about us first.

Well it's just their preference not to date a single mom, that's what preferences are abut. They don't have to give people a chance if they don't want to. Some people will automatically disqualify a person for living with their parents, some people don't want to date someone outside their "race" some people don't date blondes or only date blondes, or 'fatties" or thin people. People get disqualified all the time

[14Bricks]

Originally Posted by Elained10

That's such a stupid thing to say there's no way you can be serious.

Why is that stupid? Women with kids aren't exactly at the top of the dating food chain, and it makes no sense to chase men who don't have kids. They need to be looking at other single parents, both of them have the same background and a better understanding of each others situation.