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If so, when you pack your stuff and leave (which you should TODAY), leave one of the pics up on her screen with a note taped over it saying, "Have fun with that teeny weeny baby weenie!" or something to that effect.
If his is larger, Photoshop a small herpes sore on it and have your note say something about getting herself checked.
Regardless, GET OUT. And please, never admit you were even considering staying after finding something like that.
If so, when you pack your stuff and leave (which you should TODAY), leave one of the pics up on her screen with a note taped over it saying, "Have fun with that teeny weeny baby weenie!" or something to that effect.
If his is larger, Photoshop a small herpes sore on it and have your note say something about getting herself checked.
Regardless, GET OUT. And please, never admit you were even considering staying after finding something like that.
Or just make the pic the desktop background. No tape required. Wordless though. When you get all petty it just enables the person to feel you deserved it. Just the pic...let their own brain torture them better than you could ever imagine.
I'm surprised. I thought the guys would say it's nothing. I bet if the roles were reversed and a woman had sent a man nude pics he'd tell his partner it was nothing more than playing around or fantasy.
I don't agree at all. We are talking about photos forwarded from a close friend to her private email/cellphone. If a GF of mine found nude pics of a close friend then I would expect her to dump me too. Given they were indeed solicited.
Now if you are referring to men and porn, then I don't agree. Its people you don't know and its usually a sexual thing, no emotions involved. My GF is allowed to look at porn just the same as me.
Its not ok though. Only an abusive person would downplay the partner's feelings over it regardless of gender. There is a HUGE difference too between porn and someone you know. Its not just any guy. Its some guy she is friends with and is around in person.
If women want to sit there and lie through their teeth that its ok for them when its not, don't blame the guy. Blame yourself. No one said you have to accept their "reasoning". You can chuck their belongings out on the porch just the same so to speak.
As far as your post quoted in bold, there's NO difference as far as I'm concerned. A nude body part is a NUDE BODY PART. It doesn't matter if it's the next door neighbor's package, a co-worker's package or the porn guy's package. If a person is IN a committed relationship - they should NOT be looking at pictures of OTHER NAKED PEOPLE. Period.
If it's "variety" they seek; a "change of scenery" that they're looking for; if it's because they're so "visual" and are unable to control their own sexual urges, then they should REMAIN SINGLE - or - find someone else who is into viewing other peoples' naked body parts as they are.
I never could - and never will - understand why a man or a woman who is into sexual/physical "variety" enter into a monogamous relationship- with ONE person! It's because they have the "I-can-have-my-cake-and-eat-it-too" mentality. And for most people, that shyte will NOT fly.
As far as your post quoted in bold, there's NO difference as far as I'm concerned. A nude body part is a NUDE BODY PART. It doesn't matter if it's the next door neighbor's package, a co-worker's package or the porn guy's package. If a person is IN a committed relationship - they should NOT be looking at pictures of OTHER NAKED PEOPLE. Period.
If it's "variety" they seek; a "change of scenery" that they're looking for; if it's because they're so "visual" and are unable to control their own sexual urges, then they should REMAIN SINGLE - or - find someone else who is into viewing other peoples' naked body parts as they are.
I never could - and never will - understand why a man or a woman who is into sexual/physical "variety" enter into a monogamous relationship- with ONE person! It's because they have the "I-can-have-my-cake-and-eat-it-too" mentality. And for most people, that shyte will NOT fly.
Wow. Not looking at porn in a relationship? That sounds absurd to me. Luckily every partner I have had is totally cool with it.
Wow. Not looking at porn in a relationship? That sounds absurd to me. Luckily every partner I have had is totally cool with it.
Wow, that's okay. You're unable to control yourself while in a committed relationship. It's perfectly "natural". You're a "man". It "happens". Thank goodness you're in a relationship with someone who has the same inclinations that you have! This means one less man out in the dating pool that decent, respectable women have to contend with.
As far as your post quoted in bold, there's NO difference as far as I'm concerned. A nude body part is a NUDE BODY PART. It doesn't matter if it's the next door neighbor's package, a co-worker's package or the porn guy's package. If a person is IN a committed relationship - they should NOT be looking at pictures of OTHER NAKED PEOPLE. Period.
If it's "variety" they seek; a "change of scenery" that they're looking for; if it's because they're so "visual" and are unable to control their own sexual urges, then they should REMAIN SINGLE - or - find someone else who is into viewing other peoples' naked body parts as they are.
I never could - and never will - understand why a man or a woman who is into sexual/physical "variety" enter into a monogamous relationship- with ONE person! It's because they have the "I-can-have-my-cake-and-eat-it-too" mentality. And for most people, that shyte will NOT fly.
I personally agree with you and its how I personally feel. But the reasonable side of me would make me have a talking over real porn vs a real person. Real person....there is not anything to say other than bye bye. Porn use to me would be a signal that something is lacking in the relationship for one reason or another. A need of variety could be one reason of many. If it was a variety reason, that also gets a bye bye as that boy has to go out into the oats for awhile more or need a different type of mate.
Best thing I ever did was stay single till that was out of my system. I remember how it was before...its so much easier to not even bother with it. If I want a thrill I can go skydiving.
Wow, that's okay. You're unable to control yourself while in a committed relationship. It's perfectly "natural". You're a "man". It "happens". Thank goodness you're in a relationship with someone who has the same inclinations that you have! This means one less man out in the dating pool that decent, respectable women have to contend with.
I am UNWILLING to "control" myself while in a relationship. If I had the will to control myself I could certainly do it. Its not like I need porn, but I just see no reason not to watch it. Sometimes my partner is away and not able to satisfy me. Same goes for her. I see no wrong in taking care of things by yourself... Lastly, DO NOT question my man hood. I am more of a man than 99% of guys out there.
Or just make the pic the desktop background. No tape required. Wordless though. When you get all petty it just enables the person to feel you deserved it. Just the pic...let their own brain torture them better than you could ever imagine.
This is actually a GREAT point. Well played.
Still, I don't know if I'd be able to resist a jab at the other guy's size if it were inferior to mine.
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