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I'm always noticed men staring, but never approach is it because I look away and act aloof? I also noticed married men looking, but why do they want me look at them and smile and they think they still have it going on. One time this guy was looking at me and I looked up at him and then he turned away quickly like he was embarrassed because he was looking. Do some men don't like getting caught staring?
As far as single men, they either have low self esteem or just wanted to look.
As far as married folks, give me a break. You girls do it to.
Then you should tell those women that they're stuck up and not as attractive as they think they are.
I'm sure it will go over really well and I'm sure you'll feel better. They'll also probably want to go out with you and totally not tell all of their friends what a jerk you are.
If they dont want to go out with me to begin with whats the difference to me?
I dont know why you repsonded so hostile im merely talking about some women who get an inflated ego from alot of sexual advances
I like to look at women because I have testosterone inside of me. I don't stare. Haven't done it since the age of 14. I might look, but It will only last a second, and I don't do it often. If its a woman of great beauty and rather exotic, like a natural, tall blonde woman from Germany, yeah, I might look more than I want to, but I don't do it on purpose and I make it so that she doesn't feel creeped out.
What I usually do is, I masturbate before getting out of the house in the morning. That alone decreases my desire to look at women by a bunch. Then I pick a book, enter the subway and look at it until my stop is up.
I do this for several reasons.
1) I'm a generic guy. Average looks, average-build, don't make much money. The thing is, the average women around here - its a university town - are quite attractive while being ''nothing special.'' And the ugly or obese women already have boyfriends. The better-looking a woman is, the more desired she is. You begin by having a woman who is cute. She's pursued by good-looking men and as her looks are upgrdaded( I mean, different women, better-looking) the more those girls have good-looking and rich boyfriends. Cannot compete with that.
2)There's a lot of sexually frustrated men out there. You have no idea what they'll do for a sniff of female approval. I'm not interested in having my teeth knocked out because some dude who's been reading PUA theories read somewhere that physical violence between males arouses women and he wants to use me to test the theory. I'm in my little corner of existence not bothering anyone, and that's how I like it.
3)Boyfriends. You never know who is her boyfriend because he's scouting for possible competition. On occasion a woman will look at me to incite jealously in her boyfriend(chill out dude, I'm no threat.) One time I almost got beat up by 5 guys because his girlfriend would grab the butts of passing men to make her guy fight them.
4) sexual harrasment. I've noticed this a long time after seeing good-looking men treat women like sexual objects or whatever. They laugh at this and eat it up. Meanwhile, I've seen average-looking men with good-enough manners merely say hi to women only to have the cops called on them.
No, thank you.
So, yeah. That's why men don't approach. Most men don't have any shot with most women. I'm including the average women. Most women are either married, in relationships or in FWB's and looking for a good enough deal to have as a boyfriend. I'm not any of that. I've also realized that women will give out signals of interest in men only to have them pursue them, feed them attention, and get rejected. Women do that a lot to me. 18-35 year olds, and quite attractive, too. I'm not attractive, I'm not tall, I'm not muscular, I'm not rich. I look at the guys who are getting sex. I'm nothing like that. I'm not interested in being used, better stick to my books, thanks.
If you are interested in a man, pursue him. Approach him. I haven't had a girlfriend since 2008. I've been sticking to porn and masturbation and so far its been working pretty swell. There's no sexual frustration, no stds, no unwanted pregnancies, no waste of money wooing women, no crazy ex-boyfriends wanting to break me apart, no alimony and no child-support. Sometimes I meet a woman here and there who makes me want to good-looking enough to wave at her, and have her melt.
I've seen women approach good-looking men. They actually do it nowadays. The men who are desired by women don't work at it. They're offered everything in a plate, which means that when a man has to approach women, ask them out, and make an effort for all of it: he's considered unattractive.
Well, I am married, but I have found myself staring at a beautiful woman a few times. I simply appreciate her looks and that is all. It's just that simple....
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