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I know but it's assumed that hot is a rare sight, while pretty women are closer to average.
Hmm. I see that as far as being physically fit. And healthy. But an acoholic can appear to be hot and overtime look absolutely disgusting and unhealthy.
Or a smoker can run on the tread mill and nearly pass out.
While my fat arse is fine, just sweaty.
I'm sure filihok attracts pretty ladies. Don't be so egotistical.
Also, beauty is partially subjective. (so we don't go into this issue with symmetry, then again, not everyone is going to be attracted to symmetry either.)
How can I be interesting? Tell funny stories? Was never good at captivating an audience and everyone's favorite person of a group is the funny story teller.
You could try asking about them.
Don't try so hard to entertain them. Just ask them about what they do. Show some interest in them. Get them to talk about themselves.
In some cases, telling funny stories will backfire and actually turn people off. (I've been there)
Primarily looks, though they can be compensated for by money and status.
IOW, a bitter post from a man who has none of these things and uses this as an excuse for his loneliness.
News for you: 99% of men don't have any "status." There aren't many Roger Federer's or Prince Williams in this world. 90% of men aren't rich either and not that many have great looks.
So that leaves at least 80% of men who have NONE of the supposed (and erroneous) atttributes you claim the entire female gender wants. Yet I see a helluva lot of average looking dudes with little money and zero status having a lot of success with hot women.
Also, beauty is partially subjective. (so we don't go into this issue with symmetry, then again, not everyone is going to be attracted to symmetry either.)
Burglar's right, OP. And how would we know what to attribute your failures to? You haven't told us about yourself. Maybe you should start another thread, lay your cards on the table, and ask why you're failing. Then we might be able to help.
You can get girls without that(obviously) but those things make it so much easier and the less work you have to put in.
There are countless male celebrities who are absolute lames in real life and before they got famous who get their pick of women now because of where they're at now in life.
You can get girls without that(obviously) but those things make it so much easier and the less work you have to put in.
There are countless male celebrities who are absolute lames in real life and before they got famous who get their pick of women now because of where they're at now in life.
Right, but they are not getting average women, they are getting supermodel type women. So yes, if your dating goal is to land a supermodel, you're probably screwed if you're not in that league, but if you are average and asking out average women, you shouldn't have a problem. The fact that most of the population is average and most people still manage to get partners disputes your theory.
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