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Old 05-18-2013, 11:29 AM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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If you're getting a lot of answers you don't like, it is because the nature of your problem is so odd. I mean, who gets hit on by gay men all the time? Not once in a blue moon, not once every so often, but all the time. It is just so strange. If you really are getting hit on gay men all the the time, I have to believe that, in some way you are unaware of, you are giving off the impression that you're gay. Ask a gay man you trust about this. I bet they will point out stuff you didn't even know you were doing.

Exactly, it is not normal for a straight man to get hit on in public by a gay man all the time unless he looks gay.
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Old 05-18-2013, 02:00 PM
 
Location: New York City
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Old 05-18-2013, 02:12 PM
 
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Exactly, it is not normal for a straight man to get hit on in public by a gay man all the time unless he looks gay.
Maybe he lives in an area of NYC with a large gay population?
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Old 05-18-2013, 02:39 PM
 
Location: The Land of Reason
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Maybe he lives in an area of NYC with a large gay population?
Naw, It is some vibe that he is giving off if he is getting hit on all of the time by gay men. Hell I have been in gay clubs with some girls that frequent there and I don't hit on all of the time.

Hey, maybe I'm not as sexy as I thought that I was
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Old 05-18-2013, 02:45 PM
 
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Let me break this down.

I am not interested in NEGATIVE ATTENTION and that's what being hit on by a gay man is to me. I would be upset also if i was hit on by a ugly woman so it does not make me a homophobe to be upset that I received attention from a gay guy.

Below is what I would consider negative attention

Hit on by ugly women
Hit on by Old women
Hit on by gay men



The End
The only thing I would consider negative attention is the gay man part.

Ugly women, hmmm... It is subjective. Who knows what would make up an ugly woman. I have run into some good looking ugly women.

Old woman. I would honestly take it as a compliment. It would be a little harder for her to get with me, though. But if she manages, I'd make her feel young.
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Old 05-18-2013, 02:49 PM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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I have run into some good looking ugly women.
Do they hang out with the tall short women, the rich poor women, and the intelligent stupid women?
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Old 05-18-2013, 03:09 PM
 
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Do they hang out with the tall short women, the rich poor women, and the intelligent stupid women?
In rare cases.

But watch out for the intelligent stupid people. They tend to be highly intolerant.

Rich poor women tend to be cheap or scammers.

The tall short women... have the least problems I can think about.
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Old 05-18-2013, 03:10 PM
 
Location: The Land of Reason
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The only thing I would consider negative attention is the gay man part.

Ugly women, hmmm... It is subjective. Who knows what would make up an ugly woman. I have run into some good looking ugly women.

Old woman. I would honestly take it as a compliment. It would be a little harder for her to get with me, though. But if she manages, I'd make her feel young.

Truthfully I don't care what the person looks like or their sexual oreintation, but I tell them I'm not interested and they persist......Now we have a probelm

The persistance of someone that you don't want to be bothered with in the first place should really be the topic of this conversation.

I guess some of you understand how a good looking women feels like when being persued by some really annoying person.
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Old 05-18-2013, 03:28 PM
 
Location: Middle America
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Let me break this down.

I am not interested in NEGATIVE ATTENTION and that's what being hit on by a gay man is to me. I would be upset also if i was hit on by a ugly woman so it does not make me a homophobe to be upset that I received attention from a gay guy.

Below is what I would consider negative attention

Hit on by ugly women
Hit on by Old women
Hit on by gay men



The End
Let me break this down.

It doesn't matter what attention you seek or don't seek. Anybody can look at you. Anybody can hit on you. Ugly women, old women, women with peg legs, gay men, ugly gay men, old gay men, old gay men with peg legs. YOU CAN'T DO ANYTHING TO PREVENT IT. GET OVER IT.
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Old 05-18-2013, 03:30 PM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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Let me break this down.

It doesn't matter what attention you seek or don't seek. Anybody can look at you. Anybody can hit on you. Ugly women, old women, women with peg legs, gay men, ugly gay men, old gay men, old gay men with peg legs. YOU CAN'T DO ANYTHING TO PREVENT IT. GET OVER IT.
That's a good way to some it all up. Thread over.
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