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Old 05-31-2013, 02:41 AM
 
Location: Chicago
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Originally Posted by nycruben87 View Post
What can I do to stop gay men from hitting me on all the time?
Sthop looking tho fab-u-leth!
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Old 05-31-2013, 11:18 AM
 
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I'm not flattered but I don't get angry. I have no reason to be flattered or feel good about getting hit by a gay guy. It does nothing for me. I usually just walk away without even acknowledging them. A gay dude likes me big whoop because I don't care.
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Old 05-31-2013, 12:57 PM
 
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I'm not flattered but I don't get angry. I have no reason to be flattered or feel good about getting hit by a gay guy. It does nothing for me. I usually just walk away without even acknowledging them. A gay dude likes me big whoop because I don't care.
That's often my reaction as well.
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Old 05-31-2013, 04:39 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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But But so many posters in this thread said that a straight guy should be so flattered when a gay guy hits on him LOL

And any straight man should upset if he is hit on a gay guy and if it's not then he may like the attention
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Old 06-01-2013, 04:13 PM
 
Location: The Land of Reason
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But But so many posters in this thread said that a straight guy should be so flattered when a gay guy hits on him LOL

And any straight man should upset if he is hit on a gay guy and if it's not then he may like the attention
Why? A gay man looks at another man the same way as a female does for the masculinity that is potrayed by the straight man. I would be insulted more if a butch lesbian hit on me, because in her mind I would look effeminate.

My whole stance is that once he hits on you and you rebuff his advances and he become persistant THEN we have a problem!
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Old 06-01-2013, 04:14 PM
 
Location: The Land of Reason
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Actually, I can't say that I do

But I know how I feel.


Yeah, when you decline and they persist, that is a problem. It shows that they do not respect you in all actuality.
I agree
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Old 06-01-2013, 04:16 PM
 
Location: The Land of Reason
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I am honored as it shows I still have some attraction. :-)

Well what do you know, a well rounded stud muffin
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Old 06-01-2013, 04:19 PM
 
Location: University City, Philadelphia
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Straight men all think they are irresistible to gay guys.

I don't buy this thread. I think it's bogus.
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Old 06-01-2013, 04:27 PM
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Why? A gay man looks at another man the same way as a female does for the masculinity that is potrayed by the straight man. I would be insulted more if a butch lesbian hit on me, because in her mind I would look effeminate.

My whole stance is that once he hits on you and you rebuff his advances and he become persistant THEN we have a problem!

And I still say that for a gay man to think it's ok to approach a straight man in public means that it's something about that man that screams.....GAY
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Old 06-01-2013, 04:55 PM
 
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And I still say that for a gay man to think it's ok to approach a straight man in public means that it's something about that man that screams.....GAY

Maybe his gaydar gun is broken

I met a hardcore lesbian and she deliberately goes after straight women just to try to "turn them out". Sadly I found that is common with alot of lesbians.
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