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Old 06-02-2013, 03:42 PM
 
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Because you definitely have the credibility to be such an authority. /sarcasm

Just because you're the desperate one doesn't mean that everybody in in a similar situation is. Healthy or not is not decision for you to make. If they go through life normally without any drawbacks which is established by that situation then who are you to say it is unhealthy. I'm certainly not healthier just because I'm sexually active.
It is a scientific fact that all other factors being equal an individual with an active sex life will have health benefits that a celibate person does not. There are tangible health consequences to being involuntarily celibate. I'm not going to Google it for you, you can Google it as its common knowledge.
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Old 06-02-2013, 03:52 PM
 
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It is a scientific fact that all other factors being equal an individual with an active sex life will have health benefits that a celibate person does not. There are tangible health consequences to being involuntarily celibate. I'm not going to Google it for you, you can Google it as its common knowledge.
Involuntarily is the key word here. As a result, an involuntary person is stressing themselves out over being celibate. A voluntary person doesn't give a crap. Hence they go on with life as normal. Everyone is different and just because you don't have the mental strength to move past that if you're in such a situation doesn't mean everyone else isn't. So yeah i'm not going to Google it because why do I need to Google BS? Google isn't going to give me a report on every single person so it's pointless.
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Old 06-02-2013, 03:55 PM
 
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Involuntarily is the key word here. As a result, an involuntary person is stressing themselves out over being celibate. A voluntary person doesn't give a crap. Hence they go on with life as normal.
Its not that simple, the reason its involuntary is because they have hormones in their bodies and need the sex to release the stress (which masturbation does not quite accomplish), there are chemicals released that are good for you when you have sex with another person that has been scientifically proven.
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Old 06-02-2013, 04:04 PM
 
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Its not that simple, the reason its involuntary is because they have hormones in their bodies and need the sex to release the stress (which masturbation does not quite accomplish), there are chemicals released that are good for you when you have sex with another person that has been scientifically proven.
It's actually quite simple once you develop the mental capacity to separate the involuntarily celibate to the voluntarily celibate. You're thinking with a broad brush and a one track mind which simply is incorrect as not everyone is in the same boat.
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Old 06-02-2013, 04:18 PM
 
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It's actually quite simple once you develop the mental capacity to separate the involuntarily celibate to the voluntarily celibate. You're thinking with a broad brush and a one track mind which simply is incorrect as not everyone is in the same boat.
That's true, if your not experiencing any stress or other negative effects from not getting sex then perhaps its not a big deal but that's not the case for most men.
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Old 06-02-2013, 08:33 PM
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Because you definitely have the credibility to be such an authority. /sarcasm

Just because you're the desperate one doesn't mean that everybody in in a similar situation is. Healthy or not is not decision for you to make. If they go through life normally without any drawbacks which is established by that situation then who are you to say it is unhealthy. I'm certainly not healthier just because I'm sexually active.


Stress release is good for your health, which is my point. No way should a person keep all that inside of them for months lol
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Old 06-02-2013, 09:13 PM
 
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Stress release is good for your health, which is my point. No way should a person keep all that inside of them for months lol
I did it for months and I was just fine.
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Old 06-02-2013, 09:20 PM
 
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I did it for months and I was just fine.
I did it for years and was far from fine, it was a very serious issue.
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Old 06-02-2013, 09:27 PM
 
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I did it for years and was far from fine, it was a very serious issue.
Sounds like a personal problem. I also know people who have done it for years and they are in there early 60s now. Just people who were never interested in sex. They haven't had any issues. It was cool to meet and still know people who I can kind of see where the road was heading for me. Hence my belief that everyone is different and copes with things differently. If you let it get to you then you will have problems. If you don't give a flip to begin with then you won't. It becomes a problem if you let it be one.
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Old 06-02-2013, 09:34 PM
 
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