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So you would rather be another drone of society? Live free my boy, Go out and use legal escorts. They look 100 Times better than most women plus the sex is above average. On top of that no drama at all. You can be happy alone living life on your own terms also using escorts on the side.
If you get into a relationship you risk
1. Her getting pregnant.
2. Divorce
3. Her taking your children and money
4. Female hypergamy
5. The state screwing you over
6. She could say you raped her
7. depression from people not understanding you suffering because nobody sides with men.
No wonder you are single. Your attitude and comments are so very sad.
Not a big deal, Guy. Just do the right diet, work out, and *presto-change-O*, you'll have a new look. All it takes is some discipline and will-power. Once you see progress (which is pretty fast, on the right diet), you'll feel encouraged, and you'll get more motivated. The motivation snowballs, once you see results.
I went from looking like a skeleton to a model looking guy. It can be done.
So you would rather be another drone of society? Live free my boy, Go out and use legal escorts. They look 100 Times better than most women plus the sex is above average. On top of that no drama at all. You can be happy alone living life on your own terms also using escorts on the side.
If you get into a relationship you risk
1. Her getting pregnant.
2. Divorce
3. Her taking your children and money
4. Female hypergamy
5. The state screwing you over
6. She could say you raped her
7. depression from people not understanding you suffering because nobody sides with men.
The only problem with this is hot escorts (never mind the legal part), are expensive, like $100/hr up, so while that does not seem like much if you want to get laid 3-4 times a week that's pretty steep. If you can find an ok looking escort that will suck you off and swallow for $20-$40 then you will be ok but I don't know where you would find an escort like that. I actually looked into escorts in my past and its not what you think it is unless you get lucky and find one that is affordable or you don't want sex that often.
I would say just lower your bar until you start finding women, no matter how low you have to lower it.
The only problem with this is hot escorts (never mind the legal part), are expensive, like $100/hr up, so while that does not seem like much if you want to get laid 3-4 times a week that's pretty steep. If you can find an ok looking escort that will suck you off and swallow for $20-$40 then you will be ok but I don't know where you would find an escort like that. I actually looked into escorts in my past and its not what you think it is unless you get lucky and find one that is affordable or you don't want sex that often.
I would say just lower your bar until you start finding women, no matter how low you have to lower it.
In what areas do I lower my standards? I go for women in similar looks to me, but obviously I am undesirable due to other areas.
There's more to it than looks, way more...I say again: look more into your social issues.
Well...
...When I attempt to approach a woman, looks and mood are the first thing I see. I am ugly, but I can cheer up a bit when I approach. Sigh, I don't really know who to approach.
I will look into social issues, but in the mean time...
Try getting on hot or not and find out where you rank then look for other women with the same number give or take half a point. Make sure you have several hundred votes so you have a good distribution and see if there is a way to keep guys from voting on you, that's not useful.
Try getting on hot or not and find out where you rank then look for other women with the same number give or take half a point. Make sure you have several hundred votes so you have a good distribution and see if there is a way to keep guys from voting on you, that's not useful.
I feel like I have nothing to offer to women. I have a job, my own place, a few hobbies, and a kind heart, but other than that I think have nothing to offer to women. My humor kind of sucks, and the stuff I want to talk about do not sound interesting. I get nervous when trying to make small talk (which isn't very well-received, all I get are one word answer or a short reply like they are not interested) and I can't get the guts to ask them if I can get to know them better. I put up a profile on a free dating website but I've gotten no replies and there aren't many women there my age without children in my area. I am short and about 30 pounds overweight. I've started going to the gym and watching my diet recently hoping I'd look more attractive, but I am a long way from that. I tend to go for women in similar shape to me, but I can't attract those either.
I want to start a family, but apparently I seem to get more and more worthless as a mate to women as time goes along.
You are supposedly a 4 where you stand. If you took care of your problem areas (face, stomach) then you could probably make 6, or even higher. Don't expect to get a 10. But in my experience, rating sites are pretty much bunk when it comes to gauging your attractiveness. I've seen women that people regarded as 10s that I myself regard as a 7, 6, or even 5. Attractiveness is primarily subjective. As you go along in life, you may come to the realization that looks are only a part of the whole package of attractiveness. The size of this part depends on the person.
Just the past couple of days, I have been more or less a magnet. Nothing noticeable changed about my physical appearance, (although something did change). I had a more content mentality and I carried myself in a less rushed way. I was more relaxed in my approach to life. More peaceful.
One person whom I have found very helpful is someone named Jad T. Jones. Look him up on Youtube. His early videos talk about how to interact and talk to women. There are also videos on how to deal with insecurities. His most recent videos have been about living the best life.
Look, I have been where you are.
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