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Should I ask her what she means, or play it cool and go back to her place after dropping her off?
Just have fun man, she'll let you know exactly what she wants. The thing about women that age thats great, is that they rarely play any games at all and are confident enough to lead the way.
Just have fun man, she'll let you know exactly what she wants. The thing about women that age thats great, is that they rarely play any games at all and are confident enough to lead the way.
You could always be gentlemanly and say, 'I know you said you just want to be friends, but would you consider being more than that?'
She will probably be worried that you might not be attracted to her, and her 'giving you an out' might seem to you like she is not interested. If you are interested, say so. That should dispel all confusion .
Don't over-think it. Just go have dinner, take her home, offer to make good an the back rub (sometime during the conversation, maybe repeatedly), and let happen what happens. The conversation over dinner and on the drive should give you an idea where things will be going.
You could always be gentlemanly and say, 'I know you said you just want to be friends, but would you consider being more than that?'
She will probably be worried that you might not be attracted to her, and her 'giving you an out' might seem to you like she is not interested. If you are interested, say so. That should dispel all confusion .
Hmmm...
I'm going through a similar thing with a woman who is more than 20 years older than me. I just took her at her word. However, actions are louder. I actually am attracted to her... but it has to be mutual.
Don't give a man with self worth issues an out, because he will take that out. LOL!!!
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