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i have no idea how i pulled it off. she is waaaaay out of my league. im not saying that just to be modest. i'm baffled. hottest woman ive ever kissed, let alone hook up with.
Don't overthink it. Just enjoy. Let her figure out she's out of your league on her own. Just take my advice as someone who went through exactly what you are when I was 29, be careful with your feelings. The chances of this turning into something long lasting are not great. Just be okay with being her plaything until she's ready for someone more her age.
Don't overthink it. Just enjoy. Let her figure out she's out of your league on her own. Just take my advice as someone who went through exactly what you are when I was 29, be careful with your feelings. The chances of this turning into something long lasting are not great. Just be okay with being her plaything until she's ready for someone more her age.
thanks. is this a situation where she has low self esteem and would just bang anyone, or does she like me enough to do what we did last night?
thanks. is this a situation where she has low self esteem and would just bang anyone, or does she like me enough to do what we did last night?
I wouldn't assume that she has low self esteem, or would just bang anyone. She obviously liked you enough to do what you did last night. If she's a recent divorcee, she may be just getting out of a marriage where the spark went away and she wants to feel pretty and attractive and wants to feel wild and adventurous for awhile. And what better way to do that than to rut around with a young buck? She might even be bragging to her girlfriends that she bagged a 24 year old.
My caution is because this woman holds quite a number of advantages over you. Number 1, she's been around and has lived more life than you. You're not bringing any wisdom that she didn't learn 20 years ago. It's possible she even has kids that are close to your age. Number 2, as you said, you don't feel that you are in her league and that she was the hottest woman you have ever even dreamed of kissing and making out with.
After a while, she is going to want to start getting serious with someone. Society, her family, her friends are going to be telling her that it is completely inappropriate to be carrying on with someone 20 years her junior and she is going to be looking for someone who has been around the world as much as her and is more her equal in terms of life experience, if not income. Just be careful that if and when it gets to this point, you're not so head over heels in love that it devastates you when it goes away. I think she was trying to prep you for this with all her pre-game talk of "What are your expectations.....just friends....etc".
But yeah, in the meantime, knock the bottom out of it. And try not to separate your shoulder from all the high-fiving.
Don't overthink it. Just enjoy. Let her figure out she's out of your league on her own. Just take my advice as someone who went through exactly what you are when I was 29, be careful with your feelings. The chances of this turning into something long lasting are not great. Just be okay with being her plaything until she's ready for someone more her age.
I'll take this advice.
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