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She said she just wants to be friends to give her an out. If your mannerisms are dorkish in person she can dump you and not feel bad.
She asked what your expectations are because she doesn't want to go out with you with the expectation of putting out on the first meet. She wants to actually go to dinner and get to know you FIRST.
She knows and you also know that no 40+ woman is interested in a 20-something man for a friend. She wants to be a cougar-milf siren. She's letting you know via the "backrub" offer that she will be willing to have sex with you IF.....
You met her on a cupid site and she's willingly going to dinner--she hasn't ruled anything out. She just wants you to work for it. Single women at that age really want to be made to feel like they are still beautiful and attractive to men. Just let her call the shots and don't ruin it by dropping cheesy innuendo's or heaven forbid, taking "it" out in the car.
If you're respectful, courteous, and interesting don't be surprised if she starts opening up like a flower by dessert time. Play it cool and you could have your world rocked by a 44 year old cougar. At that age and experience level, they can be hellcats. Be careful you don't fall in love on the first date.
Assuming that this isn't a BS thread, I agree with you OP, why would she want to hang out with you... You guys are a million miles apart in terms of life experience, priorities, goals, etc etc...... course I'm assuming that she's a normal well adjusted 44 yr old.
I'm near that age and to be honest, I don't have any desire to just "be friends" with a 24 yr old woman... what the hell would we even talk about...
Not saying this is completely true for everyone, but in general, I find that most people would agree with what I'm saying here.....
So, to answer your query, have no idea what her intentions are.
Cmon man, details.... Are your fingers really that tired that you cannot type a sentence to let us know how it went. haha
went over to her house with a bottle of wine. she suggested we stay in. she was wearing a dress, and had an insane rack.
talked for an hour, then cuddled. went in for a kiss. Mod cut: Nope. Not PG13.
those are the PG details.
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