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I am not real good about talking about myself so hear it goes. Wear to start I am somewhat on the Introvert side for the most part. I am Frank, decisive, assume leadership readily, and well informed, well read; enjoy expanding their knowledge and passing it on to others. I am a warm and caring person, deep and complex. Sensitive and concerned for others' feelings good communication skills, especially written, I take my commitments very seriously; have very high expectations for themselves and others and a good listener.
I am sensitive but I do not overdo it. I stand up for myself and what I believe in. Tendency to hold back part of myself, have an extreme dislike of conflict and criticism. I do not make friends easily and people say I can be aloof some times. I do not like being center of attention and I often give back way more then I receive. I make people laugh and am a sarcastic and jokes around. Next I would say I try to do the right thing but sometimes I do not. I think of other people b4 I think of myself.
One last thing people seem to come to me for advice or when they need to get something off there chest.
Hear is one example a year or so ago I was leaving the store and this lady ask me do I know wear the hospital was she was in her car new to town and freaking out a love one at the hospital so I told her to relax and take some deep breaths . Then I told her to follow me I show you wear it at so she did.
Last year or so this boy looked to be about 12-14 approached me and asks if I could walk him home some was going to beat him up so I did.
People just seem drawn to me need help or advice things like that happen to me a lot for some reason.
I will be at the library and people sometimes will ask for help with something and I just do it.
What is unattractive about that?!? You sound like a great person.
I am not real good about talking about myself so hear it goes. Wear to start I am somewhat on the Introvert side for the most part. I am Frank, decisive, assume leadership readily, and well informed, well read; enjoy expanding their knowledge and passing it on to others. I am a warm and caring person, deep and complex. Sensitive and concerned for others' feelings good communication skills, especially written, I take my commitments very seriously; have very high expectations for themselves and others and a good listener.
I am sensitive but I do not overdo it. I stand up for myself and what I believe in. Tendency to hold back part of myself, have an extreme dislike of conflict and criticism. I do not make friends easily and people say I can be aloof some times. I do not like being center of attention and I often give back way more then I receive. I make people laugh and am a sarcastic and jokes around. Next I would say I try to do the right thing but sometimes I do not. I think of other people b4 I think of myself.
One last thing people seem to come to me for advice or when they need to get something off there chest.
Hear is one example a year or so ago I was leaving the store and this lady ask me do I know wear the hospital was she was in her car new to town and freaking out a love one at the hospital so I told her to relax and take some deep breaths . Then I told her to follow me I show you wear it at so she did.
Last year or so this boy looked to be about 12-14 approached me and asks if I could walk him home some was going to beat him up so I did.
People just seem drawn to me need help or advice things like that happen to me a lot for some reason.
I will be at the library and people sometimes will ask for help with something and I just do it.
Where is the part about you have nothing to offer the cute girls you see? It sounds like you have everything to offer. You sound like a lot of girls' dream guy. You sound like a winner. Why do you think of yourself as a loser? It sounds like you have a negative thought habit going on. You need to change your mental habit, and stop beating up on yourself.
If you have any guilt about having sex then it's probably not a good idea. Spend some time pinpointing exactly what it is about sex that makes you feel guilty and find a way to work on that.
from that post about yourself OP it sounds like there's nothing wrong with you and just irrationally have critically low self-esteem
if only I could meet the girl version of you...
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Originally Posted by krieger00
Also need to get to the bottom to the reason every time i see a cute girl i just tell my why talk to her i don't have any thing to offer her . why would she want a guy like me ?
before I burst into laughter and tears, please tell me you don't actually say that to people
If you have any guilt about having sex then it's probably not a good idea. Spend some time pinpointing exactly what it is about sex that makes you feel guilty and find a way to work on that.
only issue with sex is doing it with some i don't like or love.
Where is the part about you have nothing to offer the cute girls you see? It sounds like you have everything to offer. You sound like a lot of girls' dream guy. You sound like a winner. Why do you think of yourself as a loser? It sounds like you have a negative thought habit going on. You need to change your mental habit, and stop beating up on yourself.
I just feel like my life is a mess sure I have a job and my own place but I want to move up in the world and not be trapped in the working poor for ever. I would like to start a family some day so I need to get my stuff together. I am the person that needs to have goal or be working towards some thing. Also I feel like I have more to offer the world and want to change things in my community for the better.
When I am done with college I want to help intercity kids the poor and such get there GED and getting into college there is a few places that need help and I want to give back.For some kids education is a matter of life or death.
I just worry if she will not understand or be cool with me lack of partners.
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