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Old 11-10-2013, 02:21 AM
 
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you tell him you are "going out with the girls" dancing and all for the night..

if he is ok with this,,,then there's not much here and he's pollinating other flowers-


Why wouldn't he be ok with it? Because jealousy = love?
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Old 11-12-2013, 09:54 AM
 
Location: NYC
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Do I confront about this? Assume he's not that into it? Move on? Our connection is really great so I'm hesitant, and I don't want to seem like the crazy clingy girl that needs to talk constantly. Advice?
That's what I think. The guy texted you a lot before when you two were still a new item. Now you are not.
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Old 11-12-2013, 10:35 AM
 
Location: Washington D.C. Area
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OP men don't communicate just to communicate. There needs to be a purpose. My guess is you are boring to talk to.

I have done what you describe to girls. It was because I was into their looks but found them boring. So without being face to face I had little motivation to communicate much. Talking just to talk is stupid to most men.
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Old 11-12-2013, 12:26 PM
 
Location: Pa
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OP men don't communicate just to communicate. There needs to be a purpose. My guess is you are boring to talk to.

I have done what you describe to girls. It was because I was into their looks but found them boring. So without being face to face I had little motivation to communicate much. Talking just to talk is stupid to most men.
Don't speak for most men. I found many that enjoy talking. Some until 3am. I agree it has to be interesting.
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Old 11-12-2013, 02:17 PM
 
Location: Washington D.C. Area
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Don't speak for most men. I found many that enjoy talking. Some until 3am. I agree it has to be interesting.
Once a man is 100% sure he will never sleep with you again the talking will stop. I guarantee it.

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Old 11-12-2013, 06:44 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Once a man is 100% sure he will never sleep with you again the talking will stop. I guarantee it.
So you are saying men only talk to women for that?

So my coworkers over the yrs whom talked to me only did it to get into my pants? My brother's friends talk to me so they can do it? I think you are full of it.
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Old 11-12-2013, 06:58 PM
 
Location: Washington D.C. Area
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So you are saying men only talk to women for that?

So my coworkers over the yrs whom talked to me only did it to get into my pants? My brother's friends talk to me so they can do it? I think you are full of it.
We are talking about hours and hours of talking that goes into 3am in the morning babe. We are not talking about water cooler gossip.

Try to keep up.
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Old 11-12-2013, 07:03 PM
 
Location: Pa
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We are talking about hours and hours of talking that goes into 3am in the morning babe. We are not talking about water cooler gossip.

Try to keep up.
No I have had in depth conversations with them. They call me with every day things.
Some of what you say may be true. Sad but true.
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