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I find this less a question of future sexual compatability and more a question of "Why don't you want to engage in something fun/pleasurable with someone you care about and have a relationship with?"
Personally, I see no virture in virginity and no shame in sex outside a legally-sanctioned relationship. Hence, I would be fundamentally incompatible with someone who did.
Never. Sexual compatibility is HUGE. And since most reasons for abstinence are based on religious beliefs, my preference for an atheist/agnostic partner would rule out a relationship with such a person in the first place.
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I find this less a question of future sexual compatability and more a question of "Why don't you want to engage in something fun/pleasurable with someone you care about and have a relationship with?"
Personally, I see no virture in virginity and no shame in sex outside a legally-sanctioned relationship. Hence, I would be fundamentally incompatible with someone who did.
Well said, they're both big issues to me, so it would be a double negative.
More important than the issue of waiting is this: the best matches are made by people who have the same priorities in a relationship, be it sex or walking the dog.
Yeah, right. If you're going to do that, why the hell would you not just have freaking sex. There isn't anything wrong with doing so. It's actually rather fun, but if I recall, you've never had sex, so...
Don't worry--I plan on eventually having sex in due time.
Would anyone buy a car without taking it for a test drive? I need to kick the wheels and open it up before I consider buying it.
I bought my car without test driving it, so that's my answer to this thread.
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