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View Poll Results: Would you be willing to date someone who insists upon waiting until marriage before having sex?
Yes 25 26.88%
Yes, but only in certain cases/circumstances 13 13.98%
No 55 59.14%
Voters: 93. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 03-13-2014, 02:41 PM
 
Location: USA
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Originally Posted by Sweet Like Sugar View Post
Manual/oral sex are sexual activities, but I also don't consider them to be sex. Only vaginal/anal fits my personal definition.
Thats probably the Clinton definition too, but I could see separating 'PIV (Reproductive Sex)' being the main course and everything else being foreplayish.

 
Old 03-13-2014, 02:54 PM
 
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I have had one person in my life for whom I would have waited, so for me it depends on the person.
 
Old 03-13-2014, 02:56 PM
 
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I might be reconsidering my previous definition of sex, considering that after thinking about it, things such as mammary intercourse might be considered sex as well.
LOL at "mammary intercourse", but I don't personally consider that to be sex either. If I were married to a guy, and all we ever did was manual/oral/mammary sex, he could still say that "My wife isn't having sex with me."
 
Old 03-13-2014, 02:56 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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So what are the top ten good reasons to get married according to you?

1-5 Being madly in love
6 Friendship
7 Companionship
8 Partnership
9 Telling the world that you want to spend your life with this person
10 Creating a family together

You don't need marriage for any of those, but they're the better reasons to get married.

Financial security? Nah.
 
Old 03-13-2014, 03:16 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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1-5 Being madly in love
6 Friendship
7 Companionship
8 Partnership
9 Telling the world that you want to spend your life with this person
10 Creating a family together

You don't need marriage for any of those, but they're the better reasons to get married.

Financial security? Nah.
11. So we can do something other than mammarian sex
 
Old 03-13-2014, 03:24 PM
 
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For the record, I am talking about a scenario where an individual does not mind or care whether or not you had sex (regardless of how much of it you had) before marriage. Rather, in this scenario, this individual himself/herself wants to remain a virgin until marriage.
It depends on whether you only mean "had," or it could broadened to include "have, has, had, do, does, and did."
 
Old 03-13-2014, 04:15 PM
 
Location: SoCal
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Originally Posted by timberline742 View Post
1-5 Being madly in love
6 Friendship
7 Companionship
8 Partnership
9 Telling the world that you want to spend your life with this person
10 Creating a family together

You don't need marriage for any of those, but they're the better reasons to get married.

Financial security? Nah.
Those aren't ten reasons--those are six reasons.
 
Old 03-13-2014, 04:18 PM
 
Location: SoCal
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Good Lawd, if I'm still alive after 100 years, pls shoot me.
I'm also pretty sure I wouldn't be interested in sex with a re-animated corpse.
Not even if this "re-animated corpse" was just as or more hot than Deter Jeter (for a male) or Kate Upton (for a female)?

That said, if croygenic preservation succeeds (which is obviously hardly guaranteed), then a person revived in such a manner might genuinely not be that different from a person who was revived after his or her heart stopped beating for a little while or whatever.
 
Old 03-13-2014, 04:19 PM
 
Location: SoCal
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But if the corpse was cross dressing and castrated, would that change your perspective?
I have to say that I myself got a good laugh out of this quote as well!
 
Old 03-13-2014, 04:20 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Those aren't ten reasons--those are six reasons.

Sigh. I could come with many others. Don't be so clueless.

religious/spiritual reasons
making the family/families happy
tax breaks
the person makes you laugh

there, 10... want more?

they're all better than fiscal stability, that should be the last reason since it really doesn't make sense at all... it really makes no sense
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