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View Poll Results: Would you be willing to date someone who insists upon waiting until marriage before having sex?
Yes 25 26.88%
Yes, but only in certain cases/circumstances 13 13.98%
No 55 59.14%
Voters: 93. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 03-13-2014, 10:59 PM
 
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Since I don't want to ever get married, definitely not.

 
Old 03-13-2014, 11:01 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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No. Marrying someone before you know if you are sexually compatible is a formula for disaster.
 
Old 03-13-2014, 11:10 PM
 
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No way. I found out that a female friend of mine in college had a crush on me last year. She is very religious and goes to church a few times a week and I can tell that she is the type to wait until marriage. I'm only 23 and don't plan on getting married anytime soon. I'm not going to hold off on sex for years and be in the same relationship. Sex isn't the only bad part about dating a religious person. They would want you to go to church with them, pray with them and when you have kids, there will be a discussion about how to raise the kids, religiously or not.
 
Old 03-13-2014, 11:23 PM
 
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No. In my opinion how you are In bed together ( or elsewhere ) can make or break the spark, I want to come home, not dread it even when tired, adrenaline is a funny thing
 
Old 03-14-2014, 02:37 AM
 
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Yes, but only in certain cases/circumstances
 
Old 03-14-2014, 04:38 AM
 
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No way. I found out that a female friend of mine in college had a crush on me last year. She is very religious and goes to church a few times a week and I can tell that she is the type to wait until marriage.
You never know. Those church folks do all kinds of things.
 
Old 03-14-2014, 05:54 AM
 
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Possibly, or it could simply indicate that such an individual does not want to risk getting STDs and/or having unwanted pregnancies occur outside of marriage.
Do most people not realize that you don't automatically accumulate STDs everytime you have sex?

What I don't get about this is, is this person OK with having whatever disease as long as s/he is married? Wouldn't realistically someone who is waiting till marriage marry someone who is also waiting till marriage? If so how/when did they get STDs?
 
Old 03-14-2014, 07:33 AM
 
Location: Australia
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No/highly, highly unlikely

I don't worship virginity and I don't understand anyone who does.
 
Old 03-14-2014, 07:55 AM
 
Location: Michigan
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Hmm....honestly don't know.
It's debatable for sure.
 
Old 03-14-2014, 07:55 AM
 
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No. I knew from around the age of 13 that I wouldn't be waiting until marriage. I wanted to explore sexuality to the fullest without silly religious notions of what they considered moral or immoral holding me back.
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