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Doesn't matter to me how many women some jock can scoop up at a bar. Odds are, she is just as self centered, and low on grey matter as he is if "Hey baby, want to ****?" gets him in her pants.
I consider that a bullet dodged.
Just because a women dates a player it doesnt make her a bad person my best friend is dealing with three girls right now. Even though he cheats on them and and they know about each other they stay I think there stupid but not bad people. Its not our place to say who people should like but I wouldnever do asomething like that but could never get a date.
A true alpha male always knows how to get different types of women interested. I once met an established, bright eyed and assertive woman who was interested in philosophy. I recommended the book Being and Time (original german title Sein und Zeit) by Martin Heidegger. She wanted to introduce me to her father who is a prominent academic persona at Columbia University. At that point i knew it was once again time to move on to new challenges.
Make fun of? How about stating the obvious? It's astonishing to me that a forum dedicated to people discussing intimate relationships is filled with so many people who've never had relationships, don't desire them and/or fear them.
Well I think a poster made it clear that your comment made her laugh. So I guess making comments causing other people to laugh at other poster= making fun of.
A true alpha male always knows how to get different types of women interested. I once met an established, bright eyed and assertive woman who was interested in philosophy. I recommended the book Being and Time (original german title Sein und Zeit) by Martin Heidegger. She wanted to introduce me to her father who is a prominent academic persona at Columbia University. At that point i knew it was once again time to move on to new challenges.
Doesn't matter to me how many women some jock can scoop up at a bar. Odds are, she is just as self centered, and low on grey matter as he is if "Hey baby, want to ****?" gets him in her pants.
I consider that a bullet dodged.
Yes a virgin dodged that bullet...in fact he dodged every bullet coming his way.
A true alpha male always knows how to get different types of women interested. I once met an established, bright eyed and assertive woman who was interested in philosophy. I recommended the book Being and Time (original german title Sein und Zeit) by Martin Heidegger. She wanted to introduce me to her father who is a prominent academic persona at Columbia University. At that point i knew it was once again time to move on to new challenges.
That's cool and all but I don't necessarily see what that has to do with the topic at hand.
All the terms beta/alpha/player/womanizer are pretty stupid. Not many guys would really refer to themselves as being the last 3. If a guys is "player":
1. He doesn't have to tell people he associates with, they already know.
2. He doesn't tell women this, because it will typically hurt his chances.
3. He doesn't try to come off like this, because again, it will hurt his chances.
The reason a "player" can walk in a bar and approach women and succeed in getting dates, numbers, or taking them home that night, is because he knows exactly what to do, he's done it hundreds of times before. Women don't think "hey, this dude slays in the dating scene," but they are attracted to his confidence, his conversation, his looks, and the basic vibe he gives off as a person. When I was going out several nights a week to bars and clubs for many years, I knew exactly what to do to approach most any girl I wanted. Of course, the majority of the time it turned into nothing, like most any guy. But after doing it enough you at least have the courage to do such without it being awkward, and to keep moving. When I was in college, I'd go out with a buddy, we'd walk into the bar, and basically meet up a few times during the night, but the majority of the time was spent going from group to group talking to various people.
The reason a "player" can walk in a bar and approach women and succeed in getting dates, numbers, or taking them home that night, is because he knows exactly what to do, he's done it hundreds of times before. Women don't think "hey, this dude slays in the dating scene," but they are attracted to his confidence, his conversation, his looks, and the basic vibe he gives off as a person. When I was going out several nights a week to bars and clubs for many years, I knew exactly what to do to approach most any girl I wanted. Of course, the majority of the time it turned into nothing, like most any guy. But after doing it enough you at least have the courage to do such without it being awkward, and to keep moving. When I was in college, I'd go out with a buddy, we'd walk into the bar, and basically meet up a few times during the night, but the majority of the time was spent going from group to group talking to various people.
This is pretty much exactly what I said earlier. It's not like a guy walks into a bar and he's got some sign on his head that says "player". Upon getting to know them, a player could have the same exact personality traits as a great guy who is a real catch. When you meet someone new, you don't know if they're going to turn out to be good people or bad people. You only go by the information you're given.
Yes a virgin dodged that bullet...in fact he dodged every bullet coming his way.
What's wrong with that ? What difference does being a virgin make? Maybe they were all bats--t crazy in his estimation?
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