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I think it's bizzare that women complain about all these things that alpha males do, yet they don't have any interest in the beta males that don't do those things.
I've never been with a "bad" man and almost every guy I've been with asked me out - so by your logic - they would be alphas. Although, I don't think that they were necessarily alphas or betas.
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At any given time, a man or woman is either an alpha or a beta, yes.
And so people are either alpha/bad or beta/good?
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That depends. Are they saying that because they want to be friends, or are they saying that because they want to sleep with the person?
You see earlier you claimed it is not right to befriend someone for the purpose of sleeping with them, and I tend to agree, yet you seem to imply here that it is in fact right.
I think if they are asking you out within a short time of meeting you, yes, that is aggressive behavior. As opposed to just being friends and either it progresses from there or does not.
It is not right to pretend to be friends with someone when you really just want to sleep with them. That is basically lying. If you hit on someone, it is assumed that you think of them in a romantic capacity. You are not lying about your intentions.
Introducing yourself to someone at a bar because you find them attractive is not aggressive behavior.
neutrino dude you are way to obsessed with alpha males and beta males dude. Seriously give it a rest already. How many threads are going to bring this ***** up in?
neutrino dude you are way to obsessed with alpha males and beta males dude. Seriously give it a rest already. How many threads are going to bring this ***** up in?
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I've never been with a "bad" man and almost every guy I've been with asked me out - so by your logic - they would be alphas. Although, I don't think that they were necessarily alphas or betas.
Well, it sounds like you definitely prefer alpha behavior. You want the guy to dominate the situation. Betas want it to be more mutual, no leader.
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And so people are either alpha/bad or beta/good?
At any given time, sure.
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Introducing yourself to someone at a bar because you find them attractive is not aggressive behavior.
I think it is. In fact the act of going to the bar (presumably looking for sex) is intrinsically aggressive, is it not? You're in a bar, you are reaching out to them because you find them attractive. Non-aggressive would be talking to them about other things, for other purposes, whether or not you find them attractive.
Besides, you can be attracted to someone and have no desire to be in a relationship with them. I probably meet 20+ females every day whom I'm sexually attracted to, but I've met fewer than 6 in my whole life with whom I wanted to share a romantic relationship. I never approached any of them for a date.... I want that to happen more naturally. Like in that movie Divergent that just came out, they never go out on a date but they had a natural progression into a relationship (although I would prefer it take longer than that).
Location: "Silicon Valley" (part of San Francisco Bay Area, California, USA)
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Yeah that's two or three too many. And the "nice guy" thread *shudder* is still carrying on with it thanks to you.
You're welcome.
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