Guys are always saying they want girls to make the first move, but how???

[tofur]

Originally Posted by CarbonCountyLiving

Woo hoo!! This is great news then. Next time I see a cute guy at the store I'll just show some cleavage, grab his package, and take him out for steak.

Now THAT's the kind of advice I was looking for

You would be amazed how well that approach would work for you. You would scare the inexperienced/easily overwhelmed/feminized guys off, but would have other dudes fall in love with you instantly.

Seriously though, as a 24 yr old single guy, smile at me, strike up a conversation, if it feels good then proceed with asking me if I want to hang out, grab a beer, coffee, get a steak, play mini golf, go see a new (and good) movie, whatever. The thing being done isn't as important as the company, if I am into you we could do pretty much anything and I would enjoy it. I would be caught a bit off guard only because so few women go after what they want and are direct about it. Most will smile, only a few will strike up a conversation, and even fewer still will actually try to make plans.

Oh, and the #2 guy gave you a opening. He brought up the theater and if anything was showing that night. All you had to do was say "I don't know(since you honestly didn't), if something cool is showing do you want to go?". If he says yeah sure, then get his number (unless he offers you his first).

You can do the same thing, bring the conversation to something social your going to/considering going to/heard about, if the guy shows interest at all then go "your welcome to join", or "want to come with?".

[doobalistic]

Originally Posted by fleetiebelle

And there's also the thing that you brought up with your last relationship, which is some guys will go through the motions with a woman because she's there and she's willing and he's got no other options at the moment. So it's not that he actually is into her and wants to date (he probably wouldn't have approached her,) he's just got nothing else going on and he'll probably get laid out of it. Those are tricky to suss out, too.

Or maybe they was always rejected and never had options.

[Hawk J]

Originally Posted by oh-eve

Of course I do. And i get alot of attention when I walk in a bar... with my 6'2" (wearing shoes with slight heel) and a tight dress.

But then they look away and concentrate on the girls who look just as hot but are a few inches shorter. So they can keep their manlihood.

Height doesn't make any difference when your laying horizontal......

[J.P.]

The same way you'd want a guy to approach you. You're not going to go up to him with a Will Smith-esque pickup line and expect success.

[MogwaiLover217]

seriously why must the guy always lead? any damn logic?