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i never ask guys out but i was somewhere and saw this guy who i used to know and he was smoking hot. he said we should get together sometime.. so i contacted him first and asked him out.. great.. seems fine
but at the end of the date he totally tried to sleep with me.. so going forward i dont think it is a good idea to ask a guy out.. it gives him the wrong idea
So people shouldnt ask others out because they might want sex?
Yeah exactly, most of my girlfriends are always getting hit on by guys
Now, most guys are just flat out disgusting and say rude comments.
You know what I find, when I am in a relationship THEN guys come out of the woodwork and hit on me. Times like now when I am perfectly single, nada. It's just uncanny
what i meant was I dont want a guy to get the wrong idea if I ask him out, that I am looking to Just hook up.
There are a fair amount of men that assume that for some reason... they think if a woman is talking to them, that woman must be "desperate." But I think that's slowly dying out... and I don't think most men think this way. Although it can be hard to discern who thinks this way and who doesn't. You just have to give them a try and be on your toes.
There are a fair amount of men that assume that for some reason... they think if a woman is talking to them, that woman must be "desperate." But I think that's slowly dying out... and I don't think most men think this way. Although it can be hard to discern who thinks this way and who doesn't. You just have to give them a try and be on your toes.
And there's also the thing that you brought up with your last relationship, which is some guys will go through the motions with a woman because she's there and she's willing and he's got no other options at the moment. So it's not that he actually is into her and wants to date (he probably wouldn't have approached her,) he's just got nothing else going on and he'll probably get laid out of it. Those are tricky to suss out, too.
There are a fair amount of men that assume that for some reason... they think if a woman is talking to them, that woman must be "desperate." But I think that's slowly dying out... and I don't think most men think this way. Although it can be hard to discern who thinks this way and who doesn't. You just have to give them a try and be on your toes.
It probably depends on how she talks to a guy.
If she offers her name and asks if he is single ...
..... or if she just starts a casual conversation about the situation they are in (grocery store, bar, coffee shop) which is more playful. It gives the man the hint she is interested in talking but doesn't put the pressure on him that she REALLY NEEDS A BF RIGHT NOW AND FOREVER.
Online by guys 20-24 years old and really big ones usually.
About 10% of the guys who approach me online and look okay, are either dead broke or ex prisoners or have 4 kids by 5 women or a freaky hobby or . .. or ..I am a freak magnet. So if you are attracted to me, there must be something wrong with YOU
Don't be so modest, Eve you know you get hit on all the time by hot guys of all ages old, young and crazy, Lol
And I know you love the attention; what woman doesnt
And there's also the thing that you brought up with your last relationship, which is some guys will go through the motions with a woman because she's there and she's willing and he's got no other options at the moment. So it's not that he actually is into her and wants to date (he probably wouldn't have approached her,) he's just got nothing else going on and he'll probably get laid out of it. Those are tricky to suss out, too.
Yes that is true too! I definitely dont come off as desperate, but if he was interested he would have said more than lets get together some time, he would have made it happen. I made it happen so hes like why not... which isnt good for me in the long run.
And there's also the thing that you brought up with your last relationship, which is some guys will go through the motions with a woman because she's there and she's willing and he's got no other options at the moment. So it's not that he actually is into her and wants to date (he probably wouldn't have approached her,) he's just got nothing else going on and he'll probably get laid out of it. Those are tricky to suss out, too.
There's that too... I am still working on getting over that hurt. It's been two months, we only dated for about 5, you'd think I would be over him by now
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or a freaky hobby or . .. or ..I am a freak magnet. So if you are attracted to me, there must be something wrong with YOU 
you know you get hit on all the time by hot guys of all ages old, young and crazy, Lol
