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Old 06-02-2014, 09:40 PM
 
Location: Planet Earth
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So this woman is hot because she calls you obscene names when you fight? And you think that is love? That is pretty sick behavior.

Will she be even hotter if she starts to physically abuse you as well as verbally abuse you?
I mean, it's a fight. Do you really know anybody who uses the terms "Dear" and "sweetheart" when they're angry with somebody.
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Old 06-02-2014, 09:46 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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You certainly are infatuated with her. I doubt you really love her.

I'm pretty sure you love the way that dating her gigs your parents.
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Old 06-02-2014, 09:51 PM
 
Location: Michigan City
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You certainly are infatuated with her. I doubt you really love her.

I'm pretty sure you love the way that dating her gigs your parents.
I really do love her and yes, the fact that she gets my parents riled up is a bonus, although it'd be more of a bonus if they liked her, I'd be much happier if they liked her.
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Old 06-02-2014, 09:53 PM
 
Location: Michigan City
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I miss her a lot.
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Old 06-02-2014, 09:55 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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...the fact that she gets my parents riled up is a bonus ...
THIS ^^^ attitude is a problem. A BIG problem, and it blows your credibility on everything else.
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Old 06-02-2014, 10:01 PM
 
Location: Wisconsin
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I don't appreciate the cussing as much when she's directing it at me, and I doubt she'll ever abuse me.
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I mean, it's a fight. Do you really know anybody who uses the terms "Dear" and "sweetheart" when they're angry with somebody.
My husband and I have been married for almost 37 years and have had our share of fights------and he has never called me a G** D****** F****** B**** or Stupid, Ignorant W***** (or anything else even remotely like that) during an argument and vice versa. He normally just uses my name and clearly and articulately states the problem.

Is that what you call your wife (GDFB & SIW & things like that) when you fight? Is that how you show respect to someone you claim to love?

IMHO, you can fight with someone and still be respectful.

BTW, I have heard those phrases quite a number of times in my classroom used by preschool children who mimic what they hear their parents saying to each other. I have never heard those phrases in my own home.
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Old 06-02-2014, 10:02 PM
 
Location: Michigan City
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THIS ^^^ attitude is a problem. A BIG problem, and it blows your credibility on everything else.
Yes, because I'm the first person is history to do any degree of rebelling against my parents.
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Old 06-02-2014, 10:09 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Yes, because I'm the first person is history to do any degree of rebelling against my parents.
Nice.

Look, you could take advice, which you came here for, or you could continue to roll your eyes and act like a baby and move in with this girl and see how it works. Go ahead! Experiment with your life. Doesn't matter to me. I did my rebelling already, and any other rebelling I want to do is legal now anyway.

It's not even about rebelling, dipsh*t. It's about being a legit person who cares about people and doesn't use them.
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Old 06-02-2014, 10:15 PM
 
Location: Wisconsin
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Yes, because I'm the first person is history to do any degree of rebelling against my parents.
Have you considered that your GF may be dating you because she is rebelling against her parents?
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Old 06-02-2014, 10:40 PM
 
Location: Michigan City
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Have you considered that your GF may be dating you because she is rebelling against her parents?
How so?
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