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Old 06-30-2014, 05:51 PM
 
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Depends on how much younger you're looking for. For a mid 30's guy, you're actually going to have a better shot with a woman 1-5 years younger than you will with a woman your own age, in general. Any younger than that, and you'd better have something else to bring to the table. It skews HARD once you get 10 years younger or more. So if you're 35, you're ok dating women in their early 30's, late 20's, or possibly as low as 25/26. Younger than that will NOT be easy for you.
When I was in my 20s I found men who were older to be incredibly boring and not sexually arousing at all. I was into my music, and older men weren't, and I liked guys my age because they were cute, and when older men tried to look younger to ingratiate themselves with younger women (imitating the clothes, the hair, the music of younger guys), they came across so very ridiculous that it was like imagining my dad pulling a stunt like that. You can't compare a 20 year old body with the body of a man of 30, because even his skin and penis are undergoing changes, and there's no way he can measure up to how cute younger guys are. However, I was (and still am) mesmerized by men who were/are intellectually curious and intelligent, but if they were older, they needed to keep their pants on, and hopefully they wore age-appropriate pants.
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Old 06-30-2014, 06:02 PM
 
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OP , I don't have much trouble getting women 8-10 years younger than me. I'm over 40 ( but I look younger than I am ) or so I'm told , so I go with it ... In general am average looking ,but I do work out , eat healthy and stay in shape. This helps big time, I can't help my face , but the body is up to you.
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Old 06-30-2014, 10:56 PM
 
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When I was in my 20s I found men who were older to be incredibly boring and not sexually arousing at all. I was into my music, and older men weren't, and I liked guys my age because they were cute, and when older men tried to look younger to ingratiate themselves with younger women (imitating the clothes, the hair, the music of younger guys), they came across so very ridiculous that it was like imagining my dad pulling a stunt like that. You can't compare a 20 year old body with the body of a man of 30, because even his skin and penis are undergoing changes, and there's no way he can measure up to how cute younger guys are. However, I was (and still am) mesmerized by men who were/are intellectually curious and intelligent, but if they were older, they needed to keep their pants on, and hopefully they wore age-appropriate pants.
The skin and penis separately are undergoing changes, or do you mean the skin on the actual penis itself? What exactly happens?
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Old 07-01-2014, 06:12 AM
 
Location: Jacksonville, Fl
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The trend right now sweeping this great nation is something most here won't comprehend after reading the many posts here. That trend is young women dating older men. Much older! And it's not considered taboo amongst their peers, rather something they show off. Even with family. It's like the "trophy" role has been reversed. Young women will flaunt their well to-do older man to all their friends and family.

I personally still prefer women within 7-10 years my own age range because I could not deal with all the immature issues that would come with a 20-24 year old girl. But many men out there are taking them on. I know guys in their 40's who met, dated and married women in their early 20;s. And they are both happy.

We truly live in an "any thing goes" society these days. And it's not just older men, it's older women dating young men too. But the trend around campuses and universities, etc, is for many of the young women to have their older man and its considered a status symbol to have an older gentleman locked down.
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Old 07-01-2014, 06:23 AM
 
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How easy is it for men (say mid 30s and up) to get a younger woman if you're average in looks and finances? For the C-D men here....what has your experience been like attracting/getting younger women...both for relationships and causal dating?

Again I'm talking about your average joe who's a blue collar guy. Bc of course if your mega wealthy and/or super good looking....your experience is skewed.
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Old 07-01-2014, 08:44 AM
 
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Not very easy. Personally, I wouldn't be interested in a much younger woman unless it was for a ONS. One thing is to appreciate and fantasize about a younger woman, but it's much different to actually have something with one. It usually doesn't work out.
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Old 07-01-2014, 09:53 AM
 
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When I was in my 20s I found men who were older to be incredibly boring and not sexually arousing at all. I was into my music, and older men weren't, and I liked guys my age because they were cute, and when older men tried to look younger to ingratiate themselves with younger women (imitating the clothes, the hair, the music of younger guys), they came across so very ridiculous that it was like imagining my dad pulling a stunt like that. You can't compare a 20 year old body with the body of a man of 30, because even his skin and penis are undergoing changes, and there's no way he can measure up to how cute younger guys are. However, I was (and still am) mesmerized by men who were/are intellectually curious and intelligent, but if they were older, they needed to keep their pants on, and hopefully they wore age-appropriate pants.
That's all well and good, as long as you know that you don't represent all women. There are always exceptions out there.
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Old 07-01-2014, 09:54 AM
 
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The skin and penis separately are undergoing changes, or do you mean the skin on the actual penis itself? What exactly happens?
Surely you've noticed changes by now (I assume you're a guy, possibly 34 years old?).
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Old 07-01-2014, 12:42 PM
 
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Surely you've noticed changes by now (I assume you're a guy, possibly 34 years old?).
I can't say I have. But maybe I should have taken a set of yearly penis pictorials starting at age 20 so that I could more closely document the occurrence of any penis skin atrophy.
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Old 07-01-2014, 02:30 PM
 
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The skin and penis separately are undergoing changes, or do you mean the skin on the actual penis itself? What exactly happens?
Younger men have more attractive everything than older men, including those areas. They are also more firm. All bodies undergo a deterioration process. Even the skin on the penis looks less beautiful as it gets older.
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