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Old 06-30-2014, 12:14 PM
 
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How easy is it for men (say mid 30s and up) to get a younger woman if you're average in looks and finances? For the C-D men here....what has your experience been like attracting/getting younger women...both for relationships and causal dating?

Again I'm talking about your average joe who's a blue collar guy. Bc of course if your mega wealthy and/or super good looking....your experience is skewed.
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Old 06-30-2014, 12:18 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Easy, but I guess it is what you mean. I generally date 3-6 years older, but the person I'm just starting to see is 5 years younger... most women that contacted me on OLD were 8-10 years younger.

Are you talking about mid /late 30s going out with a 20 something? That I have no idea about. Doesn't sound very desirable on either side as hopefully you'd be in very different places in your lives.
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Old 06-30-2014, 12:19 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Find a naive, insecure, low self esteem, mental issue young hottie?
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Old 06-30-2014, 12:27 PM
 
Location: Vail, CO
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Most women that contact me on OLD are 24-35, mostly the younger end of that scale.

I'm 30. The youngest I'll go is 24, but I prefer women closer to my age.. 27-35
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Old 06-30-2014, 01:21 PM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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How easy is it for men (say mid 30s and up) to get a younger woman if you're average in looks and finances? For the C-D men here....what has your experience been like attracting/getting younger women...both for relationships and causal dating?

Again I'm talking about your average joe who's a blue collar guy. Bc of course if your mega wealthy and/or super good looking....your experience is skewed.
I'm eight months younger than my husband, and he was a cable guy when we got married. Is that what you mean? Or are you 30 or older and hoping to still be able to squeeze the Charmin?
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Old 06-30-2014, 01:28 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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Find a naive, insecure, low self esteem, mental issue young hottie?
Winner winner chicken dinner.

It is easy to find a younger woman. The question is, is it actually the sort of younger woman you want.

But this is pretty dumb anyway. Why not have a higher bar: someone you connect with and are compatible with.
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Old 06-30-2014, 01:29 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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I think it's creepy when older guys go for younger women.

Your best bet is to do your best to attract the type of girl who is a parasite. Look for one with no job, one that can't do anything for herself and expects a guy to do everything for her. That's the type of woman who is "for some reason just attracted to older guys"
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Old 06-30-2014, 02:26 PM
 
Location: Kaliforneea
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is your ONLY criteria a younger woman? Then yes. A resounding yes, for the short-term dating.

but you might have to compromise on some other points: little chubby, no career potential, coupla kids already... bats in the belfry crazy. The list goes on. But I am confident an average blue collar guy with average looks & finances can score his female equivalent that just happens to be 10 years younger. Dont expect to see your 10th wedding anniversary, however, it was fun while it lasted...
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Old 06-30-2014, 03:19 PM
 
Location: My House
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How easy is it for men (say mid 30s and up) to get a younger woman if you're average in looks and finances? For the C-D men here....what has your experience been like attracting/getting younger women...both for relationships and causal dating?

Again I'm talking about your average joe who's a blue collar guy. Bc of course if your mega wealthy and/or super good looking....your experience is skewed.
How much younger and how old do you look? Are you athletic? Still have your hair?

How old do you act?

These things matter.
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Old 06-30-2014, 03:55 PM
 
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Find a naive, insecure, low self esteem, mental issue young hottie?
Exactly. Someone with issues.
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