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so now the ball is in your court. are you going to return it, or are you going to lose the point? did you have a good enough time to want to at least see this girl again to try to get a better read on her? or was your time with her just not good enough for what ever standard you have set that is unreasonably high?
Even if for some miracle things developed between us, it would be very awkard to me to deal with stuff like kissing and sex. No way I'm going through such an hummiliation.
Even if for some miracle things developed between us, it would be very awkard to me to deal with stuff like kissing and sex. No way I'm going through such an hummiliation.
Now i think you are just having us on which i've suspected for some time...
While I think the OP may be letting his skepticism get in the way of more relaxed and informative interaction with this person (as far as figuring out romantic intentions), there is nothing wrong with him saying a woman is beautiful but he isn't necessarily attracted to her. Very insulting to imply there's something wrong with him, actually. In addition to the non-physical mattering as well to him, it is entirely possible to think someone is beautiful, but not necessarily feel a strong physical attraction.
I agree with this, but I don't think this is really the case. I think he's just too afraid to make that leap.
Hopefully he works on himself and someday will be able to stop sabotaging his chances for romantic happiness.
Now we can leave this non-event non-issue thread alone and all go back to running our business. Please spare the girl and don't ask her out, or anyone.
Even if for some miracle things developed between us, it would be very awkard to me to deal with stuff like kissing and sex. No way I'm going through such an hummiliation.
dude, we are not even at that point yet, that is going to be a ways off. all i am trying to do is get you to actually get off your dead butt, and start going out with this girl to see if there are any future possibilities. nothing ventured, nothing gained.
Even if for some miracle things developed between us, it would be very awkard to me to deal with stuff like kissing and sex. No way I'm going through such an hummiliation.
I had this assignment in a class (in college) where I didn't know anyone but it was supposed to be in pairs. A girl asked me if I wanted to pair up and I said no problem. The assignment is done and the class is over.
Yesterday she invited me for coffee this Saturday and I told her I would have to check my schedule. I find it very suspicious because no girl has ever invited me to such a thing. Apart from that, she's incredibly beautiful whereas I'm average. I think she might be wanting to make fun of me or laugh in my face if I accept, like "How did it ever cross your mind I would go out with you?"
No but with me it would go so wrong it would be humiliating.
Who says?
Sometimes it's endearing when a guy isn't like every other stereotypical generic player.
Sometimes a lady likes to take the lead, ya know? You need to not be so hard on yourself!
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You need to not be so hard on yourself!
