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No but with me it would go so wrong it would be humiliating.
When you're ready, you'll be motivated (it happens naturally), so nothing will go wrong. Nature will take over.
But you're getting WAY ahead of yourself! You haven't even been on a 2nd date with her yet. You haven't even texted her after the event! You don't even know yet if you like her, if your posts are to be believed. First you have to figure out if you like her. That will take a few dates, to scope out her personality, values, and interests. You don't need to think any farther ahead than that.
ThermoMan, you're probably feeling anxious because this seems to be too good to be true: a cute lady you find attractive took the nerve to hit on you by suggesting you go get coffee, together.
Here's living proof, man: Not every woman wants a bad boy.
I'm assuming she likes something about you, about your innocence? I personally dig shy guys myself so maybe she finds your quietness kinda cute. And, you sit with her in class.. she probably can't help but to notice what a cutie she finds interesting! Sheesh.
Have FUN. And, please go with the groove. Don't listen to the neggers on here (who will suggest she's a ho). She likes YOU! Enjoy!! and, keep us posted, k? :thumbs up:
ThermoMan, you're probably feeling anxious because this seems to be too good to be true: a cute lady you find attractive took the nerve to hit on you by suggesting you go get coffee, together.
Here's living proof, man: Not every woman wants a bad boy.
I'm assuming she likes something about you, about your innocence? I personally dig shy guys myself so maybe she finds your quietness kinda cute. And, you sit with her in class.. she probably can't help but to notice what a cutie she finds interesting! Sheesh.
Have FUN. And, please go with the groove. Don't listen to the neggers on here (who will suggest she's a ho). She likes YOU! Enjoy!! and, keep us posted, k? :thumbs up:
My guess, too, is that she found him to be pretty smart during their class project. And the fact that he's not cocky or arrogant.
Look at it this way; you two have something in common--you both place a lot of importance on personality and character. What's not to like?
My guess, too, is that she found him to be pretty smart during their class project. And the fact that he's not cocky or arrogant.
Look at it this way; you two have something in common--you both place a lot of importance on personality and character. What's not to like?
ruth and kat have said the same thing i have been telling you, so if you dont want to listen to me, listen to them. after all they are the correct gender to give you better insight than i can
so OP, what are you waiting for, an engraved invitation? you want her to drop to her knees and beg you? like they said, you havent even gone on a second date yet, and already you are thinking about sex, so at least you have some interest in her if you are thinking that far ahead.
If you will learn to turn any situation around and make it backfire on the offensive person, this will never happen to you.. My instincts say she just found you to be a nice person and wants some conversation... I would go and enjoy the coffee..
True. OP, you may well have given her the idea you're not interested. Congrats--you may have brought about a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I have faith and confidence that posters like Ruth and I will somehow help to make a difference!
We'll call ourselves unPUAs, and we solicit our materials for free. How about that for sincerity? And, no please don't go listening to so-called (s)experts who claim to want to help you, yet steal your money like a bunch of crooks!
We are here to help, mister!! (And, I totally agree- the part where he seems humble and smart, I mean, some girls love the really shy laid-back intelligent guys, and guys like Thermo have no clue!!)
so OP, what are you waiting for, an engraved invitation?
This is exactly what he's waiting for. Or for a blimp to pass overhead with the invitation trailing behind.
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and, keep us posted, k? :thumbs up:
(And, I totally agree- the part where he seems humble and smart, I mean, some girls love the really shy laid-back intelligent guys, and guys like Thermo have no clue!!)
