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Start talking to women, but in the beginning, I´d advise to start with the ones you don´t feel attraction to, and remember, women are people, human beings like you and me, with their own dreams, insecurities, desires, etc..all this stuff shouldn´t be that complicated.
Make it your mission to talk to at least one woman per day if you can, you´ve got no problems talking to men, remember women are human beings too, not aliens.Start doing that till you feel conversations with women are flowing more naturally, then move on to the next step.
Hi, I'm 22 years old and am focussing on personality development for attracting women. I would like to know how I can break my shell of shyness while talking with good looking women.
Start by talking to ALL women, not just the ones you consider good looking.
Start by talking to ALL women, not just the ones you consider good looking.
Well, its only good looking ones (according to a personal sense), that make me shy as heck. Most other women, I'm ok with. Something about good looks makes me freeze up like a computer infected by trojan.
So I just go ahead and talk. I don't want to offend the other person, that's what I'm afraid of. I wont use swears, that's for sure. But men and women interpret certain phrases differently.
Start small. Just don't start approaching random girls in the mall. When you check out at the grocery store, shopping, wal-mart, etc. start making small talk with the cashiers. Try for female ones if you can, but you should talk to everyone. As them how their day is going today, stuff like that, etc. Go get your haircut, make it a point to have a good conversation with the woman cutting your hair.
Eventually, you will do it as habit, and then talk to everyone like that out of habit, wherever you are.
Also, remember to smile, have some enthusiasm, and make some eye contact. Not too much, and don't be dramatic, but be realistic.
Well, its only good looking ones (according to a personal sense), that make me shy as heck. Most other women, I'm ok with. Something about good looks makes me freeze up like a computer infected by trojan.
Oh, this is easy to fix. Just picture them without makeup. They will look really normal then.
Start small. Just don't start approaching random girls in the mall. When you check out at the grocery store, shopping, wal-mart, etc. start making small talk with the cashiers. Try for female ones if you can, but you should talk to everyone. As them how their day is going today, stuff like that, etc. Go get your haircut, make it a point to have a good conversation with the woman cutting your hair.
Eventually, you will do it as habit, and then talk to everyone like that out of habit, wherever you are.
Also, remember to smile, have some enthusiasm, and make some eye contact. Not too much, and don't be dramatic, but be realistic.
I'm ok talking with most elderly women (around mom's age). I have no issues striking up an interesting conversation.
I end up learning something new after talking with them, and at this stage I'm always open to expanding my general knowledge. They also don't have the intimidating looks factor to freeze me up, so its all good and ends up being an effective talk.
Your religion is your business. Jesus drank wine, and even Muslims believe Jesus was a prophet. I like bacon also.
Alcohol is called a social lubricant for a reason.
Well, you skipped out hinduism which heavily taboo's drinking for families which descended from priests (like ours). Other groups in hinduism have the freedom to drink, but we don't. The money which goes for drinking must be donated to temple trusts in our case.
And sorry, I refuse to accept it as a social lubricant in my case.
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