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Old 01-26-2015, 06:44 AM
 
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...and she is.
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Old 01-26-2015, 06:46 AM
 
Location: My House
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"Why do you ask?"
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Old 01-26-2015, 06:47 AM
 
Location: San Bernandino, CA
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How fat?

If you like her, answer indirectly with something like "you have a lovely body".

Personally I love a girl with a few extra pounds on her
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Old 01-26-2015, 06:50 AM
 
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Mod note: we can discuss how to tactfully answer this question, but fat bashing will get this thread closed and the offender(s) infracted.
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Old 01-26-2015, 06:53 AM
 
Location: NYC
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Answer: "you look like you loss weight."
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Old 01-26-2015, 06:59 AM
 
Location: Earth
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Well do her weight bother you? If not, you could answer as Joe said.

Stereotypically, it's said when a woman questions about her body, she is looking for compliments more-so than advice, so if you do tell her "you are carrying some extra pounds", it's possible she'll get mad.
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Old 01-26-2015, 06:59 AM
 
Location: Spokane, Washington
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...and she is.
Then be honest. As tactfully as you'd like...answer in the affirmative.
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Old 01-26-2015, 07:09 AM
 
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Most people are aware of their weight and whether they are heavy or not.

That being said, the correct answer is "you look goooooood."
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Old 01-26-2015, 07:20 AM
 
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...and she is.
If she's fat and she asks you, tell her that she's fat. If she doesn't want to know the truth, she shouldn't ask.
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Old 01-26-2015, 08:09 AM
 
Location: Naptowne, Alaska
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I'd go with "I can neither confirm nor deny that information" and hope for the best!
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