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Original poster: The ONLY ONE who can answer your questions and make your decision is YOU. No one else here knows you, know the boyfriend, knows every detail of your lives.
You make the choice that you feel is right for you and do not count on random strangers on a public forum to give you permission. The best part of making this decision all by yourself is that you only have you to blame no matter how it all turns out.
If you are the age you state and you are unable to figure out this mess on your own perhaps you should rethink being in any relationship until you mature enough to be in an actual relationship.
The sex thing - we only recently started having sex and he has a premature ejaculation problem it seems. Every time we do it it is over in literally 2 minutes and he doesn't bother getting me off afterwards. Recently he started trying a little bit more but its still a bit of a fail. He has never gone down on me. Ever.
29?!??!?!?!?!
holy ****, get rid of that loser and get yourself to a psychologist because you have issues not only putting up with suck **** treatment, but clearly have so little self esteem that you are now defending the loser as you seem to afraid to let him go.
I know you wont listen, but down the line when the **** eventually hits the fan come back and read these comments and advice so you will know then what not to tolerate or make excuses for.
OP, he's not going to change. He needs pot to feel normal and it's going to control his life until he decides it's time to quit. Assuming he can quit. And don't kid yourself, pot does have long term consequences and they'll start to show. So pathetic.
OP, he's not going to change. He needs pot to feel normal and it's going to control his life until he decides it's time to quit. Assuming he can quit. And don't kid yourself, pot does have long term consequences and they'll start to show. So pathetic.
Get out while you can.
Great environment to start a family that is if the babies come out healthy.
What's wrong with people?
There are great guys out in the world that will take good care of you, who have great families and are drug free and yet you hear this!! Good grief!
"I thought I could change a pot head."
"That's why you are here in jail?"
"We'll, I took the blame for what happened."
"Nice. Well, you enjoy that mattress and get some sleep."
29?!??!?!?!?!
holy ****, get rid of that loser and get yourself to a psychologist because you have issues not only putting up with suck **** treatment, but clearly have so little self esteem that you are now defending the loser as you seem to afraid to let him go.
I know you wont listen, but down the line when the **** eventually hits the fan come back and read these comments and advice so you will know then what not to tolerate or make excuses for.
good luck!!! you are gonna need it!!!
Yes, he is 29 and lives with his parents rent-free (I'm assuming because all of his money goes on weed). He has no plans to move out.
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Originally Posted by funymann
Great environment to start a family that is if the babies come out healthy.
Who said anything about having babies?
And if the babies come out healthy? That's always a concern.
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