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I know, that's the hardest part for me. I get really really upset and start texting like crazy and being all like "**** you" lol. I think it's my biggest problem..just being able to handle my emotions. I'm not texting him ever again.
Good.
Delete all contacts of him just because of weakness. Don't wanna give in.
Plus, think of the bad things that happened when you start having feelings for him.
Okay�� You think I'm immature for placing too much importance on it? I feel like I have been. Like I kind of thought it was special about me and now it's gone. I don't know where that feeling came from?
You're immature because people who value their virginity as much as you say you do will not jump in bed with a guy (who they really don't know all that well) from a long distance relationship. The two things are incompatible. Mature people understand this. Immature people don't.
I'll chime in with everyone else and agree that closure almost never happens. Trying to get it will just make things worse for you.
I'm at the end of breaking up with my boyfriend of about 5 months. We're long distance, so I think the whole thing was destined to fail. The past few days I've been trying to reach out to him and he barely answers my texts anymore.
What put me over the edge today was him telling me that he "doesn't owe me anything" after I told him I can't believe he took my virignity and has the balls to completely ignore me. Me saying that made everything worse. I didn't want to make it seem like he owes me, but I'm so hurt that he doesn't even want to speak to me or work out our problems.
Am I in the wrong? It doesn't even really matter because we're over. I think I just want closure or something.
Consenting adults. He took nothing. Gee, wonder why he's not that into you.......
Okay😔 You think I'm immature for placing too much importance on it? I feel like I have been. Like I kind of thought it was special about me and now it's gone. I don't know where that feeling came from?
If it was so important to you, you should have protected it better. Sleeping with a guy you know online. Not really protecting a valuable asset.
I wish I could take back my virginity...with interest!
OP, sorry this happened . If it's any consolation, just about everybody has gave their virginity to someone they're no longer with. Time to put this behind you and move on
Okay well that's kind of rude of you to be honest. Yeah we met once but we've been talking everyday since October. Everyday. Long phone calls, texting and Skype. Please don't belittle it. I clearly care about him.
Let this should be your clue that these things are no substitute for meeting in person.
If it was so important to you, you should have protected it better. Sleeping with a guy you know online. Not really protecting a valuable asset.
Yeah you're right. Nobody seems to understand that I had good intentions here, everyone wants to tell me that I'm wrong. You know, I wanted to find somebody near me that I could connect with and love, but I never have. Sorry for taking a chance on a guy that I thought was special and turned out to be a total jerk.
I've wanted to have a boyfriend my whole life, and everyone just wants sex, sex, sex. I'm just frustrated and tired that everyone sucks.
Let this should be your clue that these things are no substitute for meeting in person.
Yes This is 100% true.
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. If it's any consolation, just about everybody has gave their virginity to someone they're no longer with. Time to put this behind you and move on 
