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Originally Posted by cwa1984
Honestly I post this topic on City Data to see if there are others on here that have been through similar experiences and there views on dating single parents whether they would or not. You don't hear much about those of us that are the product of a blended family so to be honest it's nice to talk to others that have been in a similar situation because it's not something you regularly run across.
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I did not come from such a back ground but I was a single parent. My kids father died when they were very young. We married young and made a lot of bad choices. I eventually remarried a childless/never married man. Neither of my children have a problem with dating/marrying single mothers. One son is a single father, the other never married/childless. He is now dating a woman with two kids and has dated several single mothers.
My brother married two single mothers (not at the same time). My nephew, product of divorce, grew up in a blended home, married twice single mothers and has two children of his own now. Anyhow the point is although I don't have first hand experience I know lots of people that married single parents, I know fewer people that came from blended families that went on to marry single parents, but I seen that work well also. So people do it and it works out fine.
Perhaps this is something you could do some actual extensive real research on.
I still think it is not so much the mere fact that people come from single parents to blended families but how those families interact. Dysfunctional is not limited to single parent hhs or blended families or adopted families. You claim dysfunctional is much more prevalent in blended families but I haven't seen any actual studies showing this.