Could a Man Be a "Great Catch" and Still Be Horrible With Dating? (married, men)

[brantleygilbert]

Originally Posted by Dewdroplet76

So, basically, you aren't getting the hot sexy woman that you think you deserve?

Those aren't obstacles.

I just want a woman that's as similar to me as possible. Here's a picture of me for reference:


please note my face looks like **** here, I look much much better than that in real life but you get an idea

[jaypee]

I would venture to guess that it's the stereotypical smarmy, car salesman personality.

[BirdieBelle]

The fact that you reposted the same exact thread that was just closed says it all.

You're self-centered.

Nobody wants to be around that for very long.

[Dewdroplet76]

Originally Posted by brantleygilbert

I'm 5'10 200 LBs - look sort of like a football linebacker
I look latin/greek/italian
I like women who are either fair skinned white or latin/greek/italian


and I don't doubt people's compliments anymore because it's just never ending. I had 5 different set of customers who said I was extremely handsome in about a week at my job. Why would all these random strangers be lying to me? I had this asian lady, she didn't even speak any English. She wanted to tell her daughter in law to tell me that I'm very handsome. It was hilarious


I get endless raving compliments for pretty much everything - my hair, my physique, my complexion, my teeth, how I dress and obviously for being a very nice/genuine person

Random strangers don't actually know you. And it seems that the women that you consider your equal don't want to get to know you. So you obviously aren't able to attract the women you think you deserve. And since you aren't willing to accept that it could be your personality or your looks - I guess you are just stuck.

[brantleygilbert]

Originally Posted by jaypee

I would venture to guess that it's the stereotypical smarmy, car salesman personality.

lol


Good salespeople don't have that personality anymore. It's 2015. You have to treat clients like you're talking to your close family members if you want to have any success. People don't react well to the bull**** anymore.


I talk to older customers like I'm talking to my parents and my younger customers like I'm talking to my best friends

[brantleygilbert]

Originally Posted by Dewdroplet76

Random strangers don't actually know you. And it seems that the women that you consider your equal don't want to get to know you. So you obviously aren't able to attract the women you think you deserve. And since you aren't willing to accept that it could be your personality or your looks - I guess you are just stuck.

I get the same kind of love from people who know me well


I've said it before, I get phenomenal treatment from everybody in my life except for decent looking single women. You guys are saying that the opinion of the 10% of society that dislikes me (single women) is more significant than the 90% who loves me

[brantleygilbert]

Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life

Nobody wants to be around that for very long.

I make friends every single place I go, every single place. I always have


am I saying this in Spanish?

[Dewdroplet76]

So, basically, you are totally hot, amazingly awesome, and everybody loves you - except for the very few women that you think you deserve. Got it.

[TabulaRasa]

Eh. If you had your social skills down pat, this thread (or the one before it, or any of the ones you've started under other usernames about the same thing) wouldn't even exist. Think about it.

[MissClutterbuck]

Originally Posted by brantleygilbert

I get the same kind of love from people who know me well


I've said it before, I get phenomenal treatment from everybody in my life except for decent looking single women. You guys are saying that the opinion of the 10% of society that dislikes me (single women) is more significant than the 90% who loves me

Well actually you are the one who is saying that. You admitted that they don't want to date you.

If the top 10 percent don't want you, are you really so shallow that the next five percent aren't good enough for you? (According to your math, of course.)