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**** that, I'm not interested in killing myself at the gym to look like this
so I can date a fat woman. Not interested
Got news for ya, hun. That picture is not all that. Sucking in a soft belly, and it shows.
Look, Bull, your other thread got locked. We know who you are. Your photos are not all that, and quite frankly, your personality is offputting. You asked for feeback, you got it. The problem is you.
Trent: I don't want you to be the guy in the PG-13 movie everyone's *really* hoping makes it happen. I want you to be like the guy in the rated R movie, you know, the guy you're not sure whether or not you like yet. You're not sure where he's coming from. Okay? You're a bad man. You're a bad man, Mikey. You're a bad man, bad man.
Sorry, I watched Swimgers yesterday. Eye of the tiger!
just FYI. It is literally impossible to be a halfway decent salesperson without great social skills. The whole job is predicated around making a random stranger feel very comfortable and happy around you in a 20-40 minute period so you have a good chance of a a sale. This is much harder than a bar scene because you have some control over who you talk to a bar - you'll generally gravitate to people who you feel you have things in common with who seem approachable and easy to talk to. In sales? You have no clue what you're getting. You gotta make the weird asian dude fresh off the boat love you and then make the old white woman love you then make the black couple love you. You gotta make them all feel like you're their best friend and you're one of them
There's a reason so many people will tell folks struggling with social skills to get a job in sales because you either learn quick or you drown but the experience is great. I've learned so much in terms of getting along great with different groups of people/different types of personality. I can adjust my personality to make the super rich white family feel like I'm one of them and then I'm talking about hip hop and basketball with the black couple from the south side Chicago. They both feel like I'm their best friend. That's the whole key.
For what it's worth, I close about twice the national average (50% to 25%) because I can make people feel so comfortable around me in 15 minutes
Because they want to change the subject and talk about something BESIDES you.
I don't talk about myself in real life conversations unless it makes sense within context, I talk about whatever the other person likes to talk about
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